decision making

This is my first thread and second post. Let me know if I am doing anything wrong here. I was reading a thread on the INFP forum about 'how to live life', with most responses focused on being more involved in life, taking on challenges and confronting fears, basically seeing everything as an...

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Well, I came here perhaps for advice or maybe just to rant but I think as an INFP - it is really hard to stay focused on a goal. I must say this as I can't decide what exactly I want to focus on, I mean I sort of have a rough goal for the future, but it seems to change daily so I'm not getting...

Okay, I have a curious mind; I love ideas; I enjoy the big picture; blah, blah, blah . . . I just have one question disturbing the hell out of me: Given my job-hopping and constantly changing pursuits, how am I ever going to have a meaningful life? I'm an engineer who turned to writing/editing...

"Career" choice- How to reconcile curiosity with the times of specialisation? Hello, I'm a high school student and apparently, choices that I'll make soon might determine my whole life. In order not to regret too much, I keep analyzing what really suits me best, but haven't come to a final...

Decisions influence actions. People can follow decisions they have made in the past, the present, or future. Past decisions, that determine future course, allow people to function normally when enacted upon. Decisions determined in "every waking moment or present", as well as from...

Hello! I'm a looking for some understanding, and perhaps some advice. I am an INFP female in a relationship with an ENTJ male. We've been together 2 years, and I adore him. I think we get along great. He finds me "strange and adorable", and admires me for being "quirky, and silly, and artistic...

I've been browsing this forum looking for some inspiration for my college career. Currently I am a sophomore majoring in Mechanical Engineering, and I feel like a zombie going through my classes and homework. I have no inspiration here besides the fact that I'm paying to take these courses, so...

Hi Everyone! Yes, I am an ENFP and very interested in how people make decisions. (Although I often postpone my decisions to the last minute) I am married to an awesome INTJ and you may be able to imagine we approach decision making in a different way -- (i.e., I want to wait and leave things...

I have posted this in the Debate Forum but got no replies. With the reason that I love lurking in this sub-forum because I LIKE IT HERE OK THERE I SAID IT, I have posted this here to see if you can comment on this thought. I am afraid that this is not so much relevant in this sub-forum, so if it...

Hi All, I'm new here. I've taken various kinds of the MB tests and I'm pretty sure I'm an INFP. Also reading the actual detailed descriptions of INFPs and they really resonate with me. My question is: what's the best way for INFPs to make decisions? I know INFPs tend to delay decisions a lot (...

My friend recently said: "You know, X's life is pretty boring. He's my age and all set up. The wife, the business, own appartment, stuck to one place. That's pretty boring". "What doyou have?", I asked. "I still have a choice. I'm not attached to anyone or any place. Tomorrow I can change my...

Is it just me who finds making decisions pretty hard? - I know INFJ's are considerate with other people, especially their feelings XD But i was wondering.. How do INFJ's decide?? :D I actually finalize my decision (when it's complicated) ONLY after asking advice's to my most trusted people...