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What Happens When An INTJ Stops Caring? What do you do? me: 1. As simple as turning off a light switch and leaving the room. The part of an INTJ that matters is simply gone. 2. When an INTJ stops caring, then an INTJ stops trusting. Or Vs Vs. Then. . . #1. 3. When an INTJ stops caring...

Hi everyone, sooo ... after I managed to put this thread into the INTJ forum first without noticing (because I had to head out the door) :dry: ... I'll try it in the right place again and guiltily facepalm myself while I do so: 

I had one of those "Aha" moments today about myself/my life and...

Hi there, I've been wondering a lot lately about this pattern in my life and personality. I don't know if anyone here can also relate but it would be intresting to see if it is common for the INFj personality type. Let me elaborate a little on what I mean- after all many people do idealize other...

How have you overcome feelings of resentment? Or how would you advise a fellow INTJ "to get over it"? I seem to be hanging on to this feeling and it's festering into raw anger. I want to snap out of it but since it's not directed at any particular individual it makes it harder to move on. I am...

I find that having such a strong intuition about what people will do leaves me disappointed when people do end up doing something that I wish they didn't. Even though I'm aware of both the good and bad in people, I will always be hoping for the good. So if I feel that someone will do something...

Hello friends, I wanted to get a discussion going about the ways you deal with disappointment and/or rejection. As people people, sometimes we have to put our own needs and desires on hold in order to mesh with the rest of the group. So, I would like to hear personal stories of times where you...

I find being an ESTJ I'm a forward thinker and want to get everything done, so often I put my hand up to organise tasks or be the initiator of a group undertaking. The problem being is that sometimes you expect people to help and went they don't the disappointment can be overwhelming. I do have...

ENFPs, What do you do when someone pushes you over the edge? How does it feel? Do you try to stop it? What do you say to people when you're pissed? How do you feel afterwards? Personally if someone is saying something to me or making fun of me I'll laugh it off at first, try to humor my way...

I don't know if I'm stuck in a ni-ti loop (not even completely sure what that is) but lately I've been feeling very bitter and disappointed in almost everything. This is an awful feeling, and what's worse is I feel bad for feeling this way, especially since I have so many great things in my...

I've noticed that when someone tries to get me to open up to them, I'm always reluctant to because I'm afraid that they'll be disappointed by what they find. I'm afraid that I'm replaceable and that it's only a matter of time before they find something that's not great about me or they find...

So, I've liked someone for a year now and every week I have been meaning to ask him out. But the problem is, I only see him once a week usually and often, like today, it's just not possible to approach him. I mean, he's the nicest guy ever but I don't want to seem creepy. I even fear I've...

I'm very much a dreamer and an idealist. That I know for sure. But everything I want to do with my life is probably very unrealistic (I'm sixteen). My version of a plan is that I'll keep working on my artistic endeavors and let life take me where I'm supposed to be. But no one around me...

This is not a post to bash sensors, I'm not saying any one type is better than the other! Just putting it out there, not trying to hurt anyones feelings. I had a strong need to start with that, the thought of hurting innocent strangers feelings makes me cringe internally. ENFP problems. I...

Hi fellow INFPs! :happy: I have not posted much on this board, I am more of a reader and learner from experience of others, however I have one thing I wanted to ask you about - I need your advice as you are people who handle emotions and life somewhat in the same way as I do :happy: The...