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  2. [ENTP] INFJ/ENTP complicated relationship: any advice??

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Hi everyone! I'm new to Personality Cafe, but I'd really appreciate help in a situation I have with an ENTP. I'm an INFJ, but I put this in the ENTP forum because I am extremely confused by an ENTP's behavior and thought you might understand it better than I can. So I have a very complicated...
  3. [INFP] Weird Dynamic between the one INFP I'm dating and her ENFJ sister.

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    People involved: (No judging :laughing:) Long Post Ahead Me: Senior, ENTP The Girl: Sophomore, INFP The Sister: Freshman, ENFJ My Friends: Mix of Seniors and Juniors So I was dating this INFP girl starting last July and we were pretty much going good. There came to a point where we were...
  4. [ISFP] ISFP dumped me. What is your process in a break up?

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    Hi, I'm an INFP woman who was dumped a week ago by my possibly ISFP boyfriend of one year. I can't tell if he's ISFP or ISFJ. This has been extremely difficult for me and to help me through this I'm asking for some ISFP input to help decipher what is possibly happening with my ex because he is...
  5. INFP chick here.

    Although not technically new by definition as I joined three months ago, I haven't visited since that first day. Recently I've been feeling increasingly lonely and just very INFP-ish, so I figured I could come here, ya know? Anyways, I guess I'll introduce myself. I apologize in advance because...
  6. Why do we grow distant from others?

    General Psychology
    I wanted to share an article I found that seeks to answer this question: I've noticed that I always seem to grow distant from people once they have kids or move away. No matter how hard we try to keep things the same, such events change the whole complexion of the relationship/friendship in...
  7. 30 days of silence. Stressed and hurt.

    Sex and Relationships
    I have started my 30 days without (name removed) today. I have so much pain in my entire body. The reasons for this is the terrible grief i'm experiencing from this loss in my life. I'm afraid of how miserable this is going to be. It is going to take a heavy toll on my mind and body...
  8. [INTP] Rules To Keep Relationships In Check

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Do you have any rules you apply to relationships to make them easier to get out of if you need to? Mine include: Never allow other people's possessions to get left in my space. (Exclusions: INTJ friends: their things somehow become my things, also large, comfortable shirts are also mine.)
  9. [INFJ] Letting people in and keeping them out.

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Just interested to know what some other INFJs' ideas are on letting people in to our lives, or keeping a distance. Personaly there are very few people I let in to my world at all, and I let no one really understand me. what do you think?
  10. INFJ Girl, INFP Boy, Trust and The Way Things Came To Be

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Get ready for a lengthy post. I just want to get some feedback on my situation, because I'm a little lost right now. Some months ago, I got involved with a guy I've liked for a while and have been friends with for a year or so before hand. The problem at the time was he was seeing...
  11. To ask or not to ask (crushes)

    Sex and Relationships
    So I'm a dude and There's this one girl I can't get off my mind. For some odd reason, its been like 8 months, being an ENFJ in college, there's plenty of other girls around but the more people I meet, the more I realize there's nobody even close to being similar to this girl. well, First of all...
  12. INFJ in need of help!

    Advice Center
    Hi there, I am an INFJ guy dating an INTJ girl, and I couldn't have wished for better. A bit of background: We have been living in separate countries, but despite this, have been very close for the past 2 years - talking every day and closer than friends when it comes to communication. The...