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  1. [INFJ] When you realize your disillusionment over someone (type 3's specifically)

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    First of all let me say, that I realize I'm talking about enneagram on the MBTI forum, not that that is exactly a no no, but they don't always compare, however I feel like my issues with 3's is coming more from an INFJ place then from a 4 place (I'm a INFJ 4) I also want to say I was really...
  2. [INFJ] Help Infj burn out from narcissism, co-dependency and just life overall - what helps?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Help infj burnout from narcissism, codependency and mankind - what helps? :sadcloud::unsure:I am struggling to gain equilibrium, partly due to burn-out from the emotional support required of me by others. The final nail appears to have been a “friend” turning against me when I tried to...
  3. [ENFP] i got issues (queue Julia Michaels song) Part 2 ENFP Door slam

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I was reading over at the INFJ forum (and across google) that INFJs have a door slam, while reading the description, i realized that i also have this so called Door Slam. I did it with my first boyfriend, after 11 months together. I did it with my ex best friend of 5 years. and I've done it...
  4. [INFJ] Can I regain the trust of my INFJ friend?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Can I get back my INFJ friend if he sees me as stressful? Hey everyone, Can I regain the friendship of my INFJ friend if I'm seen as stressful to him? I acted really insecure and came to him with all my problems, and though we used to be close, I'm worried I've lost his friendship. He told me...
  5. [INFJ] INFJ's: Coping With Hurt

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hey guys, I was just wondering how other INFJ's healthily cope with emotional pain? Such as unrequited love, break ups, betrayal... I don't know about others, but my current method of dealing with issues like these is not ideal (self destructive, door slamming, bottling things). xx
  6. [INFJ] INFJ's: Fighting the Door Slam

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hello fellow INFJ's :proud: How do all of you fare with the ol' "door slam" trait? I have had done some pretty epic door slams in my life, in fact I may be a little slam-happy. Its something I am trying to improve because, as any door slammer knows, once you've slammed that door shut, its...
  7. INFJ and cynicism/ need for perfection in different relationships

    Myers Briggs Forum
    This is my first thread so bear with me. I've been reading some really interesting posts about the juxtaposition of cynicism and idealism in the INFJ personality. It's something I feel like I've always struggled with and I love knowing I'm not the only one. So I want to know about other INFJ's...
  8. INFJ Door Slam

    This is my response video to Seth Johnson about the notorious 'INFJ Door Slam.'
  9. [INFJ] Any way of reversing the INFJ doorslam?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hi everyone, I'm new to this forum, really nice to make everyone's acqaintance :) I hope you guys can help with a problem I have :S I've been lurking around the forum for a little while since meeting an INFJ guy that I've developed strong feelings for and subsequently discovering that I am...
  10. [INFJ] Part of me wants to do an "INFJ doorslam" - but really not sure

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    So I'm posting here because hey, I assume some/many of you know the feel of the inner INFJ doorslam dynamic, none of you know me in person, and I feel like I need a place to say some things out loud in that kind of context and hear other INFJ's responses, if there are any. My marriage has hit a...
  11. [INFJ] What it must be like...

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hey, I've been reading from this forum for quite awhile and decided it might be time to contribute :) What I've got is this... 'Somebody that I used to know' - Gotye ft. Kimbra I was listening to this song on my way back to campus this weekend, and it hit me. There have been several posts on...
  12. [INFJ] INFJ's and the "door-slam"

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I keep reading about this door-slam behavior of INFJ's. Interestingly enough, I did not know about this behavior until recently I had executed the door-slam on an ISFP myself. So my question is, have you ever slammed the door on someone? Why? And why do you think INFJ's seem to be known for this...