Does the power of the ENFJ to get people moving typically stop dead when it comes to the skeptical INTJ? Are they seen as disingenuous and gain no foothold on the heart? Or, in a relationship, is the INTJ more likely to control the pace with their unyielding ways? I understand that this is...

I have a "type" of person I fall for. Generally they are INTJ's (sometimes, weak E's –*but imagine, someone with strong E around me. It would be a disaster.). I don't really realize that I've run into such a person until it is too late and I am already falling for them. I joke it takes about...

Questions for ENFJs from an INTJ: Tell me about your darker side. I know ENFJs are generally charming, outgoing, friendly, warm, compassionate people. But what makes you tick? What are you like on your WORST days? What insecurities do you have about yourselves in the world? (I know everyone's...

I just joined personalitycafe so I hope I'm not breaking any rules by cross-posting this here and in the Myers Briggs forum, but here goes: Hi everyone: I'm currently writing a story with a fictional ENFJ main character (a person in political life). I know that ENFJs are generally outgoing...

I'm currently writing a story with a fictional ENFJ main character (a person in political life). I know that ENFJs are generally outgoing, friendly, helpful, compassionate and charming individuals. But I'm looking for ENFJs to tell me more about the darker side of ENFJ-dom. First of all, from...

I've seen this NT/NF "Death Spiral" mentioned on numerous boards here at PerC. I thought it would be useful to have a thread dedicated to discussing it. For those of you not familiar with this dynamic (I took this quotation from the website NT/NF Death Spiral - AdamWiki), here is the...