enfj & type 4

Hey guys, I'm Zizzle, I study Forensic science and Criminology at University. I'm really into my music, I play the Flugelhorn in a brass band, I also enjoy running and netball. I'm either spending my time with friends out and about or alone in my room for several days. I'm truthful, emotional...

Alright, so I'm an ENFJ and I'm also a 4. I'm still on the fence on whether I have a 3 wing or a 5 wing, but anyways. What I wanted to talk about are the almost impossible contradictions that comes with this. 4s are self-centered, withdrawn and enjoy being the outsider. The ENFJ on the other...