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  1. ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Hi ENFJs! I'm looking to connect with ENFJs who live in or near Toronto, Canada. If you do, please send me message. Thanks! Sun18 :o)
  2. Advice Center
    Okay guys, so yes. I'm an ENFJ, and lately. (actually, it has started since last year) I've been getting very fired lately. What should I do when this emotion overcomes me? What can I do to stop this... and even when I get mad I hate it because then I feel so guilty afterwards...
  3. ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    For real, I've never been so hung up on another person's opinion of me. By that I mean I inwardly bonked myself in the head for a good week. After which I forgot (mostly) he ever existed. In my weaker moments, I recall the disappointment over failing to capture this ENFJ's interest...
  4. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    "Because it does much of its work subconsciously, Ni can seem to have a certain magical quality about it. In fact, it is not unusual for INJs to be viewed as having some degree of psychic or prophetic abilities...What seems to be occurring is that many INJs have a highly sensitive inferior...
  5. Blog
    Do most ENFJs take a long time in dealing with hurt, or is it just me? Or is it just a matter of how much you invested in someone, and that's just how the heart works?
  6. ESFP Forum - The Performers
    Just wondering what you guys thought of enfjs. I'm an enfj and know someone who I'm pretty sure is an esfp and was just wondering what you guys thought of us enfjs.:tongue:
  7. ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Well I saw a "How Do You Destroy An ENFJ" and a "What Pisses You Off About ENFJs?" and I thought there should definitely be a "What Do You Love About ENFJs?" thread. I discussed the idea with @Happy about Nothing. and decided to start the thread myself, so I'll go first. I love their caring...
  8. ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    We need to have an anthem, if not one, at least a couple of suitable songs that define us. I propose this.
  9. ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Everyone seems to think I'm an NF of some sort and most commonly, an ENFJ. I've literally thought of myself as nearly every type. How did all of you learn about your type?
  10. ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Do you think we can excel at both? I think it's common for ENFJs to have real high EQ but what about IQ? So is IQ + EQ = constant OR IQ + EQ =/= constant ?
  11. NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Are you an ENFJ that has been diagnosed with bipolar disorder? I know 3 ENFJs that have been diagnosed Bipolar, and even more that have thought they had this disorder. Please vote! If you’re comfortable with talking about it, please also let me know why/ how you were diagnosed and how you have...
  12. ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    I don't know if this kind of thread has been done before but.... I was wondering do ENFJs enjoy their alone time? I know they don't "need" it to recharge their batteries (as they are E's) but do they like being alone just to think or get away from people sometimes? Just out of curiosity :laughing:
  13. ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Last night I had a conversation with my ENFJ aunt who told me that life was painful because she felt herself taking in too many people's problems and solving them. I told her to be her own best friend and follow advice she tries to give them: take some time for yourself and just enjoy once and a...
  14. ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Hello fellow ENFJers I'm pretty sure many of us (if not all) have friends who are flakes. I am just wondering how you deal with them. It hurts more that people do not respond to calls, emails, etc than getting a flat out rejection (at least to me). I just want to see if we have any sort of...
  15. ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    I would appreciate if you could take the time to answer these because I am experiencing these feelings and I want to know if it is a common ENFJ thing and how to get out of it. 1. How do you cope with disaster or crisis? 2. Do you put a magnifying glass on the issue and make it bigger than...
  16. ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Is it normal for a female ENFJ to be bossy, and how do I handle this being an INFP? When someone bosses me around, I retract and I want nothing to do with them and they piss me off to no end, and I will forever hold a grudge against them for treating me like I'm some sort of child. Is this...
  17. ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    I don't know if this question was addressed but here it goes: How do you develop your functions?How do you enhance your functions? I think the functions are : Fe Ni Se and Ti. Thank you
  18. ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Ive come to terms with the fact that this world cannot function with just ENFJs. so i will not cleanse the world of other types XD :P I now see the benefits of the other types. it all fits together now. I see the need for NTs and their Rationality. SJ structure. and SP need for artistic...
  19. ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Sometimes being an ENFJ can be difficult. Here is some advice on how and why we develop the way we do, and who we become. As ENFJs mature, we develop our cognitive functions. These are the elements that make up our personalities. For ENFJs, they are Extroverted Feeling (Fe), Introverted...
  20. ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    I have been an office manager, a sales assistant, a social work case worker, a preschool teacher, a secretary and am now a Stay-at-home Mom. My oldest just finished kindergarten and her sister, my youngest starts preschool next year. I have stuff to keep me busy and I do a good job of...
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