Hi everyone, So I was wondering whether I could pick your collective brain... It's a bit of a long convoluted story so please bear with me. I'm an INTJ woman in my mid-twenties involved with an ENFP man twice my age. I'm a doctor with many side hobbies and interests that take up a lot of my...

I am definitely in the middle of a game, a battle. A FIERCE BATTLE. Although this time, I don't care WHO wins. I just want us to be back to how we were before and STOP all this. That's why I need your help, my dear ENFP fellows. I am bringing up my personal case with this female ENFP not only...

Hi, I'm very much ENFP and recently came out of a very intense and quite unhealthy relationship with an ENTJ. It was really detrimental to my self esteem since I doubt myself very readily and he was very quick to project all our issues onto my character flaws which I readily believed. Also...

Hello INTJs, I just got a chance to interview INTJ male Jin Shergill on what it's like to be an INTJ BP/S(C) MM. Because Jin has masculine Te and Feminine Fi, he struggles with his identity. During the interview, we talked about his demon Fi and Se functions and how it's affecting his life as an...

Hi Guys... I know there are a lot of related posts and questions about this topic... but I guess everyone thinks their own issue is special. So I apologize if any of you have that "Oh please not again!" reaction. I also apologize because the story is long and complex and might be better suited...

OK - question for INTJs. If this question has been asked and answered ad-nauseum, pray tell me where. I'll go read up (and delete this post). I know the whole INTJ-ENFP thing. Or so I have been thinking. But there is this nagging question that refuses to leave me. Context The mature INTJs...

I am an INTJ who does not understand the ENFP type well. I have pretty well developed Fi, but I am massively weighted to Te. I am deeply attracted to thinkers, maybe because that is my comfort level, but partly also because thinkers tend to reveal their thinking. So you get some additional...

Hi! I am an ENFP girl, deeply in love with an INTJ man. In fact, I've been in love with him for 3 years. He has a wife, so i tried to forget him several times ( I know it is not right), but since I see him everyday, I haven't managed to do that :(. We get alog very well and I've always felt a...

Hi! I'm an ENFP girl on the way to make a big decision. The thing is, I've been in love with an INTJ man for nearly 3 years. He is 10 years older than me and has a wife. We meet everyday, which makes extremely difficult to forget him either to change my own feelings. I've always liked him and as...

well, first of all just got to acknowledge that ENFPs are one of the nicest for INTJ's. I know its a generalization, so I will just say that for this INTJ the ENFP I am with is pretty cool. Let me list the characteristics I like : from a visual and intuitive standpoint - its the feeling of the...

Hi guys! :crazy: I am actually new in this forum and i never posted anything like that so its qiute an interesting experience for me :D Also sorry for my english, it's not my mother language. Now as for my problem: I am an ENFP girl hopelessly in love with an INTJ. At least that's what i...

So I've been reading posts around Personality Cafe, including some posts about relationships, and I notice that a LOT of INTJs likes xNFPs. (Cute.) What I'm asking is: What is your experience with xNFPs? What do you think of them? (It doesn't matter if it's a friendly, family, or romantic...

My parents' house is very cluttered, dusty, poorly decorated and smells horrible in certain areas. The house is an old small townhouse located in a post-industrial village in the north east with our nearby housemates being my step aunt and uncle. The clean rooms in our side of the house are the...

I love INTJs, whether we are friends or one of you become a lifelong partner of mine. I can imagine marrying an INTJ or another NJ as a partner for writing wills, raising children, planning a life together, etc. We compliment each other well. What I want out of life is to create the happiest...

Because writing this through keyboard inputs causes the underlining annoyed emotional derived flow upon me and that stomach down below growls with disgust through the technique which is extreme desire an patience that profoundness is attraction to ENFP , depression and the fact I'm an INTJ...

Hi there! I'm an INTJ girl(79% introverted) , and a student nurse who plays the flute:laughing: I enjoy reading and studying about horoscopes. I love studying about the human anatomy and physiology, which made Gunther von Hagen my favorite anatomist. I also enjoy reading about science...

SO, my question here is...How do you guys generally feel about INTJs? Like them? Tolerate them? Can't stand em? I know 2 INTJs, one is a dear friend and the other is my brother's girlfriend. The first friend I spoke of, I have zero problems with and talking and hanging out with her is the...

I apologize in advanced for all of this writing, maybe someone will care. Hello ENFPs (...and INTJs because they are bound to hop on board at some point), I have been familiar with the MBTI for nearly two years now and I have found it to be very resourceful in terms of self-improvement as well...

Nearly every ENFP who responded to that thread had suffered a hang-up! I think it has to do with our Ne-Fi relationship. Our Fi is regulated by our Ne, so if we fall for someone, we are usually convinced that falling in love was a good idea in the first place. We've already prodded the...

Hey. This might be somewhat long but it should be a pretty interesting issue to address. Anyway.. I am an ENFP (yes, I know they are often mistyped but I PROMISE!) and I have been dating an INTJ for 2.5 years now. I greatly admire him and up until a few months ago things have been really...