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  1. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    Is there another INFP 4w5 Sp/sx 415 here lol? Just for curiosity. I did not find much information about this tritype.
  2. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    Hello everyone! - As a 4, how often do you find people you click with? - Does it happen instantly or it takes a while and getting to know? - What is your instinctual variant? In my own experience is quite binary, it either happen easily and strong or not at all. I am curious to listen to...
  3. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    Me, I see other people as normal. Their emotions, their personal lives, their reactions, their insecurities, their problems, their pains, are normal for their neurotype and circumstances. But mine? Unique. Weird. Different. Strange. Wrong. Bad. Disproportionate. And it feels like the worst thing...
  4. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    Hello everyone, Have you ever cut every relationship off your life? I was raised in a dysfunctional family with a NARC mother and it affected my relationships greatly. I would accept anything and everything from friends/boyfriends, feeling lucky to at least have people in my life. Enters...
  5. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    I’ll ask the quick question then get into more personal details for those who are interested. I wonder if it’s possible to be one subtype on the inside, but to look more like a subtype on the outside through learned behavior and maturity. When reading Beatrice Chestnut’s book I very much...
  6. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    I am a 4w3 with a very strong 3 wing and I have typed as a sexual four on two separate occasions using the test on the eclecticenergies website. I have also read many descriptions on these variants, but still feel uncertain about the accuracy of this typing-- about which, between self-pres and...
  7. Myers Briggs Forum
    So, I'm a lot less good at typing people than I'd like to be and I found myself curious about what type Mr. Beast is. For any not aware, he's a YouTuber. Go check him out and give him some love if you like what you see (I get he's not everyone's cup of tea though, because no one is, so no...
  8. Heart Triad - Types 2,3,4
    I am a core 9w1 with a 6w7 head, but heart is super tricky Reasons why it could be a 2: I enjoy taking care of others. In romantic relationships, I am more of a giver, planning dates and giving gifts. I like sharing food with my friends. I enjoy doing random things to help, such as helping...
  9. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    One component of enneagram 4s is that we want to be 'secretly parented'. I relate to this quite a lot. I have disagreements with my parent's style of parenting and fixate on them, labelling them as the reasons for why I struggle to connect to other people. My search for friendship is one not...
  10. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    University applications have to be submitted really soon and I don't know what to do. Here are my main dilemmas: 1. Do I go into Arts or Sciences (Biology)? 2. Do I live at home or on residence? Please give me advice fellow fours who have been to university or anyone who has any input. 1. What...
  11. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    Interesting information. According to this website, the people of enneatype 4 have a tendency to present a body with the following characteristics: Generalized blockade due to hypotension. Asthenic bodies, thin and long. Skin pale and cold. Face: childish features, expression of suffering and...
  12. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    Hi other 4 people and other people of other types. I was wondering how 4's deal with substance abuse and what you think about it.
  13. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    I'm a social four and I have this state I can be in where I'm like in this natural state of happiness, freedom, lightness, laughter, like how you feel when you're at a picnic with your family in the summertime. That's like my happy place. It's sooo not this dark intense place that fours are...
  14. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    I came to this realization while responding to a different thread. Fours need people to be obsessed with them, because they are obsessed with themselves. No matter how low a four's self esteem is, there is still a "self" that we nurture and care for inside of ourselves. I believe that even...
  15. Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Bojack Horseman is a colourful Netflix cartoon show about a horse that is actually quite depressing. But I find it really interesting and funny and I recommend watching it. This show has a really big focus on real-life personality flaws which makes it so fascinating to type them! I'm more...
  16. Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    He's a classic 4, emotionally expressive, revealing, believing he was inherently inferior, but also believing he was above others, making things a tragedy for himself was easy. He's even stated this, he always made things sadder than they actually were. Can someone explain to me why he's typed...
  17. Heart Triad - Types 2,3,4
    I have no close four friends and I am terrified of having any relationship with a four. A four-four relationship seems wild. If anyone has any can you describe them? If you can, specify what their wing is and their instinctual stacking is. (I am very nosy)
  18. Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Taken from the EnneaApp by Lori Ohlson. I'm unsure if this has been posted on PerC before, but I wanted to share in case it isn't. Type 1 These children felt heavily criticized, punished, or not good enough. Household rules may have felt inconsistent. As such, they became obsessed with being...
  19. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    I have created a playlist for type 4s on spotify. I am unable to post a link but my profile is under ershanno on spotify. As a four, I am drawn to music that I feel understands me. I hope that you enjoy!
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