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  1. video- 4 and 9 "spinning out" in relationships and making each other crazy

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Finding this vid series by carolyn zakowski really useful and interesting. There's a new vid up about the dynamic between four and nine and how they can "spin out" and go to a bad place with each other. Can't tell you how many times I've seen this dynamic at play, including in a long-term...
  2. [Enneagram Type 9] When are you comfortable standing up to people?

    Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    From what I have read, standing up for oneself seems to be more of a last resort, negative thing for nines - you assert yourself when being hurt, as a defense, and it is part of conflict, something negative. Are there also situations where you assert your needs and desires and feel it to be a...
  3. [Enneagram Type 9] The stream of conscious/venting thread for nines

    Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    I don't know if such a thread exist but i can't seem to find it here so if nobody mind, i'll go ahead and make one. If it already does, please delete or redirect me there! I need a place where i can vent/rant about being a 9 and which (me thinks) only other nines can understand. So i'm sure many...