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  1. Enneagram Help: 9 or 6

    What's my Enneagram type?
    Laid back 6 or an anxious 9 ? I initially typed myself as a 9 but I think for a 9 who strives to be unbothered, I get easily stressed out and irritated on the inside (I won’t show it, few people can tell) I find most things a bother, people demanding the smallest thing from me and I see it as...
  2. Any INFP 4w5 459 so/sp’s here ??

    Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    That is overly specific but yeah I wonder if there’s anyone with my exact type? Hit me up!
  3. How do INFP guys see INFP women?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    or more specfically, how would an INFP 4w3 guy see an INFP 4w5 woman?
  4. Type me please? Having a very hard time with my enneagram/tritype/instinctual variant.

    What's my personality type?
    Hi, all. I think I am an ENTJ. I have done a few cognitive function tests, along with Myers-Briggs tests (not official), and I get pretty high Te, Ti, Ni. If you want to type me for mbti, you definitely can (I'm very interested in your opinion and reasoning), but the thing I really need help...
  5. Enneagram T-shirts store (just published)

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    A selection of simple black t-shits about the symbology of the Enneagram, e-types, and a couple about Gurdjieff 4th way. Great for a gift to a friend or to yourself. Check it at Enneagram Series
  6. An informal survey on the relationship between MBTI types and enneagram types.

    Bulletin Board
    Hello Personality Cafe! I am doing an informal survey on the relationship between MBTI types and enneagram types. I have almost 800 respondents so far, most of which are from Reddit and Discord, but I want to branch out to as many places as possible. With 16 personality types in the MBTI system...
  7. Interpreting my enneagram (attached)

    What's my Enneagram type?
    So I've taken the Ennegram a few times and am consistently getting these results, but I don't know how to interpret them...I am slightly dominant on the 5 (98% match), and that certainly resonates, but so does 7 (95% match). Is it possible to have two dominant wings? I know that the 5 & 7 are...
  8. How to let go of your core personality's emotion and change/heal your Enneagram type

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Hi all, This post is about how to identify the core pillar emotion that the rest of your personality type flows from, and to help you begin the process of letting go of that core identity emotion so that you can either move from an unhealthy stress state to a more healthy state, or even...
  9. Tired of going back and forth with myself please help

    What's my personality type?
    I am questioning my type because I definitely think like an ENTP, but my actions show otherwise. As a kid, I was almost stereotypically ENTP. I know I am ExxP, so anything else is probably out of the question, unless there's something I'm missing and someone has a good explanation. The people...
  10. A fresh start. Type me.

    What's my Enneagram type?
    What is your main, general goal in life? I like to be successful and competent so I don't need to suffer. When I'm not suffering, my imaginations make me satisfied and I become more confident. I also like to influence people that way. But I may like some short-term pleasures to get satisfied...
  11. What Kind of Game Genres Are You Into? (Enneagram Edition)

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Hey there! Do you have any particular video game genres that you particularily like? If so, what's your Enneagram type and/or tritype and how do you see it influencing your preferences? I love deep emotional story-based games, so adventure and rpg-styled games are my go-to. I'm rubbish at...
  12. Core 9 seeks two more fixes

    What's my Enneagram type?
    I'm pretty sure I'm a core 9, but I'm looking for my tri and IVs Which of these 3 do you relate to best? Shame fear/anxiety, or anger? Explain why and how you feel these feelings? They're all pretty strong, but anxiety is the highest. Lots of things make me anxious-lack of personal space...
  13. Am I an extrovert? Help me confirm my type.

    What's my personality type?
    After lots and lots of research I have typed myself as an ENTP. The function stacking makes sense to me (especially Ne and Ti) I'm just not sure if I'm really an extrovert. I read somewhere that ENTP's are the most introverted extroverts so I'm still pretty convinced that I'm an ENTP but more...
  14. Tritype 459 - What are you doing in life? // Also NETFLIX THE OA

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    I'm a 4w3 5w4 9w1 Sx/Sp (INFP) And was wondering if any of you are similar and what you are up to? Or thinking about? there was an older thread like this years ago but I'm looking to see if we could set up a group call or just talk on here would be fine. I'm living at home with my parents...
  15. [ESTJ] Any Enneagram 5s here?

    ESTJ Forum - The Guardians
    Hi, recently I've been considering that I might be an ESTJ. The thing is, I'm not so sure if my Enneagram type (5w4) corresponds to Te-Si cognition. It's possible that Si-Ne could want to information in order to be more productive (Te) or to plan out for possible contingencies (lower order Ne)...
  16. How Does your Enneatype Interact With your MBTI Type?

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    I'm trying to find differences between certain Enneagram and MBTI combinations in order to better understand certain discrepancies between behavior types, like why some ENTPs are more goal-oriented than others, etc. Feel free to add your personal experiences and observations about any ennatype...
  17. What is the relationship between type 9 and dissociation?

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Disclaimer: English is not my first language. Disclaimer 2: I am really, really, really ignorant in regards to the Enneagram. Please, excuse this. My tritype is either 549 or 594. Recently, while I realized I had a marked resemblance with type 9 descriptions when I had always simply thought...
  18. What do you think about the enneagram type 8?

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Be it short encounters or long relationships; I'd be thankful if you could share your experiences with 8s here. Thoughts of the general description of the type are welcome too. Links to older threads with this topic would help aswell. I cannot find any.
  19. Your Personal Experiences With Your Tritype

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Hey y'all! I'd like to see if you guys can tell me your personal experiences in assessing your correct tritype and realizing what your core issues where in that fashion. I'm kinda tired of looking at theory and I feel like sharing experiences with tritype instead.
  20. [Enneagram Type 7] Only two moods: super excited and null/void

    Head Triad - Types 5,6,7
    I'm a 7w6. By default, I have no emotional state, at least not one that I can detect. It's just null/void/blank, and not even something I think about or focus on. But sometimes I get really excited about something. I'm actually very easily excitable, so then I get super excited very quickly and...