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  1. [ESFJ] ENFP to ESFJ: Stop trying to control me!!

    ESFJ Forum - The Caregivers
    Let me just start out explaining that I do like ESFJs. There seems to be a lot in my life right now. I find them very stabilizing and loyal. And I am capable of loving ESFJs (I love my ESFJ roommate and my ESFJ step-mom and my ESFJs coworkers). They really seem to have sense of reality...
  2. ESFJ: The Wall?

    ESFJ Forum - The Caregivers
    I know one particular ESFJ who has a REALLY strong wall up. It's so concrete - you exchange hellos and then you hit it. My other NF friends have noticed it as well, and we don't understand it at all. Occasionally he'll say something or do something and you can see through the wall a little...
  3. ESFJ: Hosts and Hostesses of the World

    ESFJ Articles
    ESFJ Extraverted Feeling with Sensing ESFJ types like to put other people at ease. They are talkative, popular, and genuinely convinced that rough times can be overcome if people work together. They put a lot of conscientious energy into...
  4. ESFJ: The Control Freak

    ESFJ Forum - The Caregivers
    Champions of rule and tradition, defender of convention and order, the ESFJ values predictability, consistency, promptness, and continuity. This love of order, stability, and tradition most often manifests as a fanatical and almost compulsive control freakery, combined with an anal-retentive...