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  1. [INFJ] Unexpected Chemistry with an ESTJ

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    About five months ago, I met someone through a dating app and we immediately hit it off, which is usually a rare occurrence. We talked for a few weeks before meeting in person. While we were texting during this time, we found that we were both interested in MBTI; however, I became a bit worried...
  2. Questionnaire attached - what's my type?

    What's my personality type?
    Hi all, I'm having a little trouble narrowing down my type from four options (I'm considering the ESxJs and the ENxPs), hopefully this questionnaire and your responses to it can help me analyze myself better! 0. Is there anything that may affect the way you answer the questions? For example, a...
  3. How often do you feel dumb?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    So, I am wondering how long people spend instrospecting...especially for those with lower Te or Ti. How often do you find yourself questioning your own cognitive processes? How often does someone say something that makes you feel like "I should have known that fact", or "How come they know...
  4. Help with typing myself once and for all

    What's my personality type?
    Hi all. I am having a difficult time typing myself, and I do not find online tests to be accurate, as my results always vary. Here is how I describe myself and have been described by other people: I am very sensitive and emotional. I easily pick up on and even take on the moods and emotions of...
  5. MBTI types of characters from characters of Classic Literature:

    Guess the type
    Jane - ISFP - Favorite literary heroine ever, and one of the first ones from fiction I really related to as an ISF/TP myself, though I feel I’d be way more suspicious of Mr. Rochester’s bizarre behaviors and dark secrets than she is, and start badgering him with tons of questions about what the...
  6. [INFP] Relationship advice for INFP's in need!

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So, just starting this. I have a major problem. I fell out of love with my boyfriend and I don't know what to do. It's not like anything was wrong. I just... don't feel it anymore. And I feel so bad. I fell for him really fast, and my heart fluttered for everything he did, but... omg I feel...
  7. What are the best subjects to talk with SJs?

    SJ's Temperament Forum- The Overseers
    What are the best subjects to talk with SJs? I have a big problem to talk about something interesting with SJs - maybe it's because every SJ I know is only talking about daily life and it's so annoying for me.
  8. [INFJ] Advice for coping with change and stepping out of my comfort zone

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I'm back, asking for advice, yet again, haha. So, I'm an INFJ, as you can see. Though for some reason when I take a test, it says that my intuition and sensing are pretty split, which makes sense at times. Anyway, I'm now moving off to college. I have orientation this Thursday, it is a two...
  9. Pretty sure I'm Te dom

    What's my personality type?
    Another type me thread from me, how annoying and predictable (and other users have posted way more than I have). But I found a cool questionnaire and wanted to post it. So here goes: 1) Context: a) What is your age range and general location (Country so that cultural values can be taken into...
  10. INFP Female and ESTJ Male

    Sex and Relationships
    Hi, I'm an INFP female currently dating an ESTJ male. How we got here was unconventional, and I didn't even plan on dating him in the first place. I at first got so annoyed by him and parts of his personality--I felt like he was gratuitously honest at times amongst other things that would vex...
  11. If Football/Soccer teams were human/had personalities? MBTI/Myers Briggs

    Myers Briggs Forum
    What would you type them as? Kinda a weird question :D only a bit of fun! But I was wondering whether this would contribute to the philosophy or playstyle of the club, the club's vision or what kinda feel you get when watching them!, fans? I dont know.. anything really xD :tongue: What would...
  12. an INFP finds it's so hard to break up with an ESTJ

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Hit to the point: I want to break up with my ESTJ boyfriend, but I just can't. /* sorry for my bad english, I'm not a native speaker and still working on to be better */ there're so many point of view in my head: - I need emotional support, while he can't give any to me. - I don't like being...
  13. Extroverts: Victims of Manipulation/Abuse

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Hi! New here, but love this site and it's insight :) I am writing a book and working on a character that has been heavily manipulated and abused since childhood. Coming out of that abuse, I'm trying to figure out what a very broken person (ptsd, fear, nervous) would look like as they begin to...
  14. [ESTJ] The Difference between ENFJ's and ESTJ's.

    ESTJ Forum - The Guardians
    Hello Personality Cafe, I just found out that one of my family members is an ESTJ. I know that there are some broad differences between ENFJ's and ESTJ's. Sometimes, I get stressed out because they want to plan so much and since I am an ENFJ I plan then I overplan causing so much stress. What...
  15. [INTJ] Philosophy and the INTJ

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Hello my friends. I've had an extended vacations from this place. Its great that more and more people are discovering this whole MBTI thing. While the ideas that Jung produces are very abstract. He does take on the fundamental bones of Freud. This shouldn't be forgotten. Freud derived his ideas...
  16. Any Touhou freaks here? (music thread)

    Myers Briggs Forum
    If so, how would you type each of the last boss themes (and maybe the last bosses themselves)? These would be my choices. I included themes from the Classic era ahead, because there were just enough themes for the 16 types. (Keep in mind that I am going to go off on stereotypes in some cases...
  17. ENTP with ESTJ questions, please help!!

    Myers Briggs Forum
    So I'm a female ENTP and my best friend is a male ESTJ. We had been friends with benefits for a while and then I started developing feelings. For the sake of our friendship, I stopped sleeping with him. I didn't tell him outright that I had feelings for him but told him I was going through some...
  18. Would you go out with the following types on a woman?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    ENTJ, ENTP, ESTJ, ESTP? Let's just assume they're not beyond ugly in physical appearance. - Your type - Yes?/No? and why?
  19. ... how do you work?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    This juicy tidbit of an idea just popped into my head out of nowhere, as I sit and watch stressed teenage students write national tests. :oh: If you look at your week at a glance, or your schedule (or lack there of) on a typical week, what does it look like? Factors to take in to...
  20. Your workspace. Orderly, chaotic, disaster area or pristine...?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    I'm an ENFP with ADHD. To me, the idea of an orderly desk or workspace is unheard of. Don't get me wrong, I know how to clean and organize, and actually quite enjoy it. It's a hobby. The idea of spending a weekend organizing and rearranging classrooms (I'm a teacher) sounds like a dream come...