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  1. What are your expectations from a romantic/intimate/sexual relationship?

    Sex and Relationships
    What do you expect from a romantic/intimate/sexual relationship? In regards to: Communication Affection -physical and/or verbal Sex Security and/or Commitment Finances Roles and Chores- both yours and that of your partner Common interests Future/Plans/Goals e.g. buy a home, have kids, etc...
  2. [INTJ] What expectation do you have from your server when dining out?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    1) I'm seated by the host or hostess as soon as a table is available. 2) The server should show up within 5 minutes to get drinks and ask about apps. The faster the better, even just to say I'll be right with you. 3) Server should come back in 5 minutes (or fewer) to see if everyone is ready to...
  3. Extravert forced to be introvert & vice versa?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    What are your experiences when you were an introvert forced to socialize and maybe even thought you were an extravert? Or maybe you're an extravert who doesn't have friends (me) for several reasons and had to learn to be alone? I think the first example is more common in US and Canadian...
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  5. [ENFJ] ENFJ Dream Jobs

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    The title is pretty self-explanatory. Let the rest of the world know what the real dream jobs of ENFJ's are. Most websites say that ENFJ's are most compatible with jobs that require leadership skills or humanitarian skills, what are your thoughts? Personally, I see myself working in the...
  6. [INFJ] INFJs and the guilt train when disappointing others?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hi everyone, sooo ... after I managed to put this thread into the INTJ forum first without noticing (because I had to head out the door) :dry: ... I'll try it in the right place again and guiltily facepalm myself while I do so: 

I had one of those "Aha" moments today about myself/my life and...
  7. [INTJ] INFJs and the guilt train when disappointing others?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Hi everyone, 

I had one of those "Aha" moments today about myself/my life and I wanted to know if you can relate to this as an INFJ? 
 I always feel extremely guilty and sometimes ashamed when I cannot meet other peoples expectations (even unspoken ones). 
Even if I say I’m sorry and the...
  8. [INFJ] It is getting tiresome now

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I've always been hearing it, but since I've started my new job it has been more frequent than ever. "Well, that sounded enthusiastic.." , "I really don't get the feeling you enjoy what you are doing" or "Are you not excited for this?!" These remarks I have been hearing most of my life. For...
  9. [INFP] Weird Dynamic between the one INFP I'm dating and her ENFJ sister.

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    People involved: (No judging :laughing:) Long Post Ahead Me: Senior, ENTP The Girl: Sophomore, INFP The Sister: Freshman, ENFJ My Friends: Mix of Seniors and Juniors So I was dating this INFP girl starting last July and we were pretty much going good. There came to a point where we were...
  10. [ENTJ] ENTJ opinion needed - Love&Grief of INFP w ENTJ

    ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    I originally posted this (quite long) post in the INFP sub-forums. Got some good responses, but someone said to post here to get an ENTJ opinion. Please let me know. I'm an INFP guy (with some INTJ tendencies, maybe?) in my mid 30's. Divorced 2 kids. I've known ENTJ woman for well over 8...
  11. [ENFP] Trouble with shyness/anxiety around "regular folk"

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hello! Do you often struggle with shyness around new people? From time to time I can get very shy, and it makes me depressed to not be able to joke around and have fun like I do when I'm with my friends. At the workplace there is just so much seriousness and dull grown ups. We're not allowed...
  12. [ENFP] How do you deal with external expectations?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hello fellow ENFP's! How do you deal with expectations put on you by authority figures? Next weekend I have to go to a family gathering and while I don't doubt it will be fun, all I can see is a whole weekend spent on something other than what I would ideally do. I do love my family and people...
  13. [INFP] INFPs and traditional gender roles and expectations

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    How do you think INFPs in general fit into traditional roles or expectations of their gender? Like INFPs males don't seem to fit the archetypal 'macho male' image, like we're seen as more emotional, sensitive, idealistic, not as competitive/physical, we invest a lot in relationships, think with...
  14. [INFJ] "Hypocrite" for not wanting a kid?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    So on Friday I was with a group of people from college and they somehow got on the topic of children and how we planned to raise them. Eventually the topic had involved me, and everyone began to ask me what I planned to do with my kids and whatnot. So I basically told them I don't want to have...
  15. [INFJ] How do you INFJs do when there are expectations?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hello! Sorry for two posts in one day haha. How you do guys react when you know there are certain expectations and/or pressure? If I know I need to impress someone, I automatically lock up, which sucks since that is the main time I need to express myself! I'm going to have interviews coming up...
  16. The Motivations of Myself & Others.

    So my stories may not move you, though I know there are some people that these stories affect positively, and that is enough for me. So you think I'm full of lies, well, it's not about who can talk more or faster, it's about the quality of what is said. I may simply take longer to speak than...
  17. [INTP] What Are You Like As A Customer?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I wonder how an INTP's eye for detail flows over into their expectations of service and product quality. What are you like as a customer?
  18. [INFJ] The Disembodied Idealist

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hello, my name is Jonathan, but must people know me as Sojourn. For the longest time, I spent my life in discontent, unable to process my own characteristics and mannerisms. Recently I have found out about MBTI and Socionics, discovering that my personality is in fact, consistent. Soon after...