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  1. Tips for dealing with ex's/compassion/boundaries

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    I'm afraid my big heart is detrimental when dealing with relationships. Does anyone have any ideas or tips for dealing with exes? I think at times I would be better off cutting people out of my life (or keeping them out of my life) but sometimes have an emotional pull to at least be open to...
  2. [ISTP] How to end a 7 year 'friendship' With an ISTP. Should I even end it?

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    Hello, I am an INTJ. I am having issues with an ISTP I've known for several years, this is long so please bear with me. There is someone that I became friends with in middle school. We stayed friends ever since. After middle school, we started to drift apart a little, and lived miles away...
  3. What do your thoughts linger on when you think of your Ex's

    Sex and Relationships
    I'm curious how the different personalities think about past relationships. As an INTJ I don't think about the past much only to remember a few moments in a relationship ( you know which ones ). But do others linger on what could have been and beat themselves up or like me do they just carry...