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  1. [INFJ] Waking up, healing, becoming true

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hello INFJs of the interwebs, I got emotionally abused by a covert narcissist for two years, I was codependent with her and she was my best friend. After weeks of guilt inducing I ended the relationship to her. First I was so proud and felt so liberated and full of energy. Now I just saw how...
  2. [ENFP] What Scared You As a Kid?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    When I was young a lot of things would scare me but not traditional things. Which is why I'm asking. For example, I wasn't afraid of the dark, or strangers, or the "bogeyman". Here are the fears I can remember: -The Unsolved Mysteries show theme -Police sketches -Radiation -My parents...
  3. [INFP] Top 3 things you fantasize about on the daily as an INFP?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hey there INFP friends! I was curious, what are the top 3 things you fantasize about on the daily to see and compare how all our minds work... My fantasizes are around... 1.) Future potential romantic relationships with various people from my past and that I know now to basically guess who my...
  4. [INFP] Anyone else blow things up in their heads?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I'm not sure if this roots from anxiety, or having enneagram 6 in my enneagram tri-type, but I always turn little things into major problems in my head. And I say this unironically: it's a big problem for me haha. It's hard to pinpoint examples because I can explain them all away, so I'm just...
  5. [INTJ] Let’s make a backup plan for world domination

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I was reading something on reddit (I’m too lazy to remember now) oh wait... I just did:D Well, the summary is that there’re quite some INTJs on distress out there: INTJs having trouble staying sharp. We all know what our biggest fear is. And my suggestion is: why don’t we take an INTJ approach...
  6. [INFP] I am becoming an adult, and it terrifies me. Advice?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello, first I'd like to thank anyone who takes the time to read this and respond to it, whatever kind of advice I get will truly help me. When I was really young, I never imagined myself going into middle school, then once in middle school, I never imagined High School, or graduating for that...
  7. [INFP] Which emotion do you avoid the most?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    What I mean by this is, Which mistakes do you most often avoid making that might bring the most negative feelings in you. I did not want to include other emotions for a reason. The IF temperament is most avoidant of these emotions, from what I have observed. I left multiple choices open in case...
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  9. [INFJ] Not liking your current job

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hey dear community! Tomorrow I will have my first day of working after a 17 day vacation and I am scared for it. I am depressed and anxious (I don't know if that's imprortant for this). The thing is, I work in a very toxic environment there, people put so much pressure on you and treat you to...
  10. Fear the Walking Dead

    Myers Briggs Forum
    My guesses: Madison Clark: ESTJ Nick Clark: ISFP Alicia Clark: INFJ Travis Manawa: INFJ Chris Manawa: INFP Daniel Salazar: ISTJ Ofelia Salazar: ESFP Brandon/Derek: ESTP Jeremiah Otto: ISTJ Jake Otto: ENFJ Troy Otto: ISTP Qaletaqa Walker: ISTJ Lola Guerrero: ISFJ What are your guesses?
  11. How does ENFPs fear of commitment take shape in your lifes?

    Hey guys, I'm kind of at the beginning of a relationship (before the beginning, actually). I've been overanalyzing it too much and the last two hours I suddenly got pretty hysteric about it. Like, my mind completely freaked out. I'm scared of making ANYTHING official of showing there's...
  12. [INFP] Not pursuing relationships, fear of hurting the other person.

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I keep finding myself in situations where things somehow don't work out and the other person gets hurt which makes me feel awful (maybe I'm just easy to guilt-trip..). Now I find myself shying away from people I really like out of fear of having them grow attached to me and then somehow get hurt...
  13. [INFJ] Why am I scared of everyone and everything?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I am hemophiliac, enneagram type 4w3, and This world feels too much for me. :( I live in India, the 2nd most populated country of the world. The competition is becoming fierce day by day. People are becoming less compassionate towards each other. The only compassionate people I see around are...
  14. 3 Simple Fears

    General Psychology
    While doing some self analyzing, this theory came to me that people have 1 of 3 deepest fears at the root of a lot of their other fears. These are: Fear of Emotional/Mental Pain Fear of Humiliation/Embarrassment Fear of Being Flawed/Imperfect Yes, they are very oversimplified, but I love...
  15. Fear of animals

    General Psychology
    There's something I've always been curious about. Ever since I was young, I've had a fear of all animals, bugs, and inbetween. It's not just spiders, and snakes, it's almost every animal I've ever been in contact to some extent. My mom says when I was three years old I saw this dog named Sammy...
  16. [INFJ] Social Anxiety "Waves"

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hello dear community. =) I want to ask a few questions about anxiety. But at first I have to admit that I never got a diagnosed anxiety by any doctor or therapist. I just feel my feelings in social interactions are more than "just" shyness and I have a big fear for the future. (to be alone and...
  17. [INFJ] Help meeeee; I joined an infj fb page and it was one of my worst ideas ever

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Quick question: Do you care a lot about being understood? So I'm new here. Heck, this sounds petty. I'm not sure this post will even be seen and I certainly hope joining this page will not be as bad of an idea as joining that group. I guess I need someone to rant to, someone who can conversate...
  18. Depths of Ni

    Socionics Forum
    I've recently descended back into the depths of my Ni. I now realise why I left. It is so fucking painful, especially when you mix in that Fi-. In a weird way, it makes me super cold, and dark, and that kind of scares me. It's interesting that Ni+ is described as a flow of time, and harmonious...
  19. [INFP] Roommate Problems

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi everyone, I have a roommate dilemma. A new girl recently (in the middle of January) replaced my old roommate and has been causing a lot of problems, but I'm not sure how to handle them. I find that I can't stand up for myself without a great deal of anxiety. I don't want to hurt her feelings...
  20. [INFJ] Has anyone else had this problem in the "social environment"?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    As of recently I have made a personal discovery about the origins of how and why I have a certain fear. And it also ties in with the Enneagram 4 labeled fear "that they have no identity or personal significance". Generally, with "friends" (both close and acquaintance) I tend to hide away or...