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  1. [ISFJ] [ISFJ] Best Way to Ask for Help?

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Howdy, ISFJ here. I know that ISFJs REAALLY struggle with opening up about their own feelings and asking for help when they need it. Personally, I can ask for help when it doesn't involve my own feelings, but if I'm in a really bad mental/emotional place I feel like everything shuts down. If...
  2. [ENFP] My ex-ENFP best friend ghosted me under very weird circumstances

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    This is gonna be long, so bear with me. So it's about me (25F/ENFP) and my former best friend (22M/ENFP) We met nearly 4 years ago online and met up in person soon after. I developed a little crush on him and immediately let him know, only to get rejected. Feelings didn't run so deep, so I got...
  3. I feel attracted to my boss. Some tips how to deal with it?

    Sex and Relationships
    I feel attracted to my boss and I don't want to. Simply because I have no desire or interest to develop my attraction into something more and I want to keep our relationship only on a professional level (I don't even know if he is married, in relationship etc.). I feel very uncomfortable about...
  4. [INTJ] INTJ Men with High-functioning Autism or Asperger's, please respond...

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Do you ever have the tendency to not know that you're feeling deep feelings for someone until you've inadvertently hurt them by saying there wasn't a connection (when there was. we talked every day and had been physical after a revelation of feelings), there was an emotional ending to your...
  5. [INTJ] Maturely handling feelings and a friendship after rejection

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Hi all, New here after I successfully passed the “I’m not a robot” test to register x) I found out I am an INTJ two years ago through the official test. I do not rely entirely on MBTI for all aspects of life (just good for adapting communication IMO). In this case though, I would like to avoid...
  6. Why can't I feel love for humans?

    Sex and Relationships
    I've never felt love for another human for as long as I can remember. I care about people, but I don't love anyone. I care for my boyfriend, but I don't love him. If he broke up with me tomorrow I wouldn't be sad. If my friends abandons me then I won't feel sad that I lost them, perhaps I will...
  7. [ENFJ] ENFJ thoughts on art?

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Hello everyone, I'm thinking of creating an ENFJ character who also happens to be an art forger for a story I'm writing. My question for you is whether you think art forgery is also a form of art (as in; trying to recreate the emotions the original artist put into the artwork, etc.) and what you...
  8. Responding to suicide (how??)

    General Psychology
    Obviously a sensitive topic, don't read on if you don't like it. Unfortunately people in our society can have terrible lives and mental states (and more) that can lead them to take their own lives. I'm young, so to more socially experienced people out there: How are you supposed to react as...
  9. Easily-angered, temperamental people: Low or high Fi?

    Cognitive Functions
    I can see how a dominant Fi would mean the person is very in touch with their emotions and their feelings are very important to them and therefore feelings can be easily hurt. But also, an inferior Fi would mean the person is less in touch with their emotions and therefore less able to control...
  10. [ENFJ] Can ENFJs change their feeling about someone with time?

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    I orginally asked this question on this thread: personalitycafe.com/enfj-forum-givers/1212898-i-need-your-advice.html (sorry it's not a full link, I don't have enough posts yet to copy links here) But I haven't had any replies there so I decided to make a new thread about this. So, basically...
  11. STP Feelings and a question (Shocker we have them)

    Myers Briggs Forum
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  12. [INFP] Emotional Relationship problem

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hey guys, especially towards my fellow INFP's I need to get some feelings and thoughts off my chest that I really don't know how to cope with at the moment. So I have recently started dating a guy (ENFP) that I quickly and deeply fell in love with. Probably too quickly. He was the one who told...
  13. Open expression of strong emotions "cathartic episodes" in front of/with your S.O

    Sex and Relationships
    Open expression of strong emotions "cathartic episodes" in front of/with your S.O I recently had a slightly strange happening? moment? time? I can't quite find the words to explain it but let me set the scene in hopes you may understand; :dejection:My partner & I were watching a comedy movie...
  14. [ENFP] (Not) trusting our gut (Ne+Fi)

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I'm trying to make sense of things that happened to me yesterday and I'm still processing, but I thought it would be useful to process some of it "externally" here. We use Ne to find hidden patterns and connections, and see possibilities/potentials. We engage it through observation and...
  15. [INTP] Texting issues/irregular responses : does he care ?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Hi guys, So nearly 3 months ago I met this guy on a dating app. We started chatting and eventually decided to switch to another platform to continue texting. I guess the conversation was enjoyable for both of us as we shared thoughts on many topics and debated easily. He was actually very...
  16. [INFJ] Intensity of emotions felt when alone increases after social interactions

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    So I'm wondering if anyone else experiences this.. I spent a lot of my time alone behind the computer every day (working) and I barely see anyone except for family members and some friends every now and then. So the longer I spent alone, the less intense I seem to feel. I don’t know, it feels...
  17. Depression and warping of the mind..

    General Psychology
    Depression is a disease that affects many people all over the world. This is a well-known fact. Do you suffer from depression ? Have you come through the other side ? I think it is one of the biggest mysteries of our world today. I often wonder; Why is depression is so common ? How do so many...
  18. [INFP] Stealing money from a blind man (social experiment)

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    How do you feel about this social experiment? I was shocked and inflamed. The former can be initially seen as confusing, because I feel like I always rant about how much society sucks, but then at the same time, I feel pretty naive. In the sense that it's still hard for me to comprehend how...
  19. Are you happy with your life the way it is, as of now ?

    Member Polls
    Are you happy with your life the way it is, as of now ? Are you where you want to be ? Doing something you love ? While reading this, are you happy with your life ?
  20. [ENFP] ENFP dating an ESFJ. HELP ! CRAZY?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    For a year and a half, I (the ENFP male) was dating an ESFJ (female). I broke it off. However, I've been recently reconsidering getting back together. We recently talked about where we failed each other, could have tried harder, and reflected on what we've learned apart. PROS: we have...
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