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  1. Hi! I'm new, am I an ESTJ?

    Hello! I'm new here and wanted to know if you could tell me if I am an ESTJ or not? My sister who is really into Myers-Brigg decided I was an ESTJ, and I certainly identify with a lot of the things in the book about ESTJ's I am not sure that I am one. I am definitely judgemental, but I usually...
  2. [ENFP] ENFPs are misunderstood IMO -INFJ

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    ENFPs are stereotyped as vapid, manic children. It frustrates me because they are actually very analytical and thoughtful. Here's a video of a male and female ENFP When I post videos of ENFPs on my channel, people often comment (on youtube or reddit) saying that they must be INFPs because...
  3. [INFJ] INFJ Male left me...

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    INFJ and accepting the unchangeable... I'm sorry, I've decided to take this story down. Thank you to all INFJ's who've given me advice, kind or not. It is viewed as a blessing either way. This is just such a personal matter to me, that right now, at this time, words of doubt and unkindness take...
  4. Hello World! (ISTJ Female)

    Greetings! ISTJ Female here. I found PerC via Google. After reading some insightful threads, I decided to join to ask my own questions and to share from my perspective. Professionally, I enjoyed working as an engineer for some years, then I received a call from mother dearest to come home and...
  5. Young, Female, ENTJ - Could I possibly be any more of a minority?

    Hi Everyone! I have been fascinated by the MBTI for many years and have typed as an ENTJ since I first took the indicator 10 years ago when I was 13 years old. I'd love to connect with some other female ENTJs, especially others my age, but all are welcome! I plan to post on a topic about my...
  6. [INTJ] Can you help me put a plan together to meet a partner?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    My dating experience includes (these are broad generalisations of course): xNFP: Suffocating, effeminate men who make me feel like the “man” in the relationship. (I have dated one ENFP guy for a year, who came out as gay shortly after I broke it off (because I thought he was gay)) xNTP: Take...
  7. Hi, ESTP here!

    Hello my name is Rachel and I am an ESTP! I am currently a senior in highschool, and I love public speaking, playing tennis, korean dramas/kpop, and star wars.
  8. [INTP] Am I INTP? What I did in my interview?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Okay so I had this interview which I think I did well in... It got me thinking about my personality and what I test as and I got INTP. But I just want to be sure just in case something I answered was biased or wrong in some way. Anywho how I did the interview was I tried to get into my...
  9. [INTJ] How biology & society affect female INTJ personality?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    As a female INTJ, and knowing I am apparently rare, I'm curious what everyone thinks as far as biology and societal pressure influencing female INTJs' behavior. Correct me if I am wrong, but I believe females are inclined to be more caring and aware of others' emotions, as a result of the...
  10. What career would suit for an INFJ 5w4 female?

    Education & Career Talk
    I would like to know your ideas!
  11. [INTP] Approaching a female of interest

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Salutations, I'm new to the forum, I'm glad to finally be at a place where I can talk with like-minded people. Before I ask my question, here is a quick background of my situation: [Background] I am 18, 3rd year of High School(held back), and I am currently enrolled in a technical program for...
  12. [Enneagram Type 5] Type 5's Help ME!!! Female 8 likes Male 5 (first time poster)

    Type 5 Forum - The Investigator
    Please bare with me, "feelings" make me antsy and I babble and I don't want to leave anything out but this is so important to me. I am a female 8 and I like a male 5. We have been talking online for 6 months and have about 10 thousand messages back and forth. (I must be ok? lol) He's not flirty...
  13. Magnificent Redhead Hoping You'll GUESS HER TYPE

    What's my Enneagram type?
  14. Gender differences and type differences

    Myers Briggs Forum
    How much do you think the whole 'Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus' thinking is explainable by Myers-Briggs or personality theories in general? Would you say SFJ vs STJ is sometimes just like 'typical female' vs 'typical male'? Of course, SFJ males and STJ females are still common, but...
  15. New INTP here!

    Hi, I'm new to the forum and really excited to meet other people who are not only interested in things like personality types, by also to meet other people who share my personality. Quick STATS on me: I'm a 38 yr old married mom of two teenage boys, I work as a budget analyst for a large...
  16. [INTP] How do female INTPs sympathize with male INTPs interaction with women?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I got to thinking about this, and it makes me really want to meet a female INTP (and ENTP now that I think about it). I mean, you must know how statistically probable it is to run into a girl that won't know how to get you, and in fact do a lot of things that bother you - when first meeting...
  17. [ENTJ] ENTJ ladies and femininity

    ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    ENTJ ladies, do you find yourselves feminine? How do other people perceive you when it comes to this? I have to admit that I was a huge tomboy when I was a kid, and especially when I hit puberty. It could do something with the fact that I entered the puberty earlier than I was really ready to...
  18. New Lady! INFPs unite!

    Female, 19, sophomore in college It's so awesome seeing all the posts from people with similar/same personality types, I feel so understood! Bonding over the internet ~ typical me. It's so much easier than people in real life. I'm very into all things creative, and despite being in college I'm...
  19. [INFP] How to get over someone

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So I made one of the biggest mistakes ever: I fell in love with one of my best friends. He's an INTJ male and the most incredible guy I know. I didn't do anything about it for a long time because I didn't want to ruin the friendship, but my feelings got too strong for that. So I told him how I...