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  1. Lost very close friend

    Advice Center
    So, here for me (INFJ) school started recently, I'm a somophore (10th grade in my country). The closest friend I've ever had in school (an ENTJ, but I also have an ENFP bff out of school who is like my sister because we've been best friends for 7-8 years) started drifting away from me since the...
  2. Board Game Club Ruined in Phase 2

    General Psychology
    Hello, this is going to be a little bit of rant and the story is long,so please bare with me, but I also have some questions that I'd love to have answered. Thanks for reading. So yesterday I had Board Game Club, with my friend Jordan, Kat, Cory, and his mom, Mrs. Arrants (who was the...
  3. [INFJ] Attachment, Personality Disorder, Avoidance, Problems with Intimacy, anyone relate?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    So as of the last year or so, after quite a few years of hard work and research that i've put in, I've reached a conclusion that I am suffering from what's called C-PTSD. I certainly have a narcissist (or someone that suffers from narcissism) in my life, and that person is my father (and others...
  4. [INFJ] Totally Let This ISFP Guy Push Me Into a Dark Place and I Lashed Out...Badly

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Feeling very guilty because I completely verbally decimated this guy. We haven't known one another that long and things have always been a bit fraught. He's a very typical ISFP and gets very angry and defensive when he perceives criticism. This time, he was "finally done" or whatever and I...
  5. MBTI in the Hunger Games

    Alright, so here is what I want to point out and make my prediction. i am rather new, so bear with me. One, the environment in the hunger games changes in many different ways. In my opinion, "P" has an advantage because they are more adaptable, but this doesn't mean they will necessarily beat...
  6. MBTI Stereotypes We Hate And Would Like To Get Rid Of

    Myers Briggs Forum
    This is one of those awareness things where we complain about stuff we hate and people read them and complain about stuff they hate and we all realize that something needs to be done about all this nonsense in the process. To people who want to post: This benefits you because you can vent here...
  7. [INTJ] Do you dislike us? from an ENFP to an INTJ.

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Sorry but I had to ask, I'm an Enfp and I'm knew at this but I noticed in several sights the "confrontations" between ENFP's and INTJ's and I what is the reasons we fight? (sorry if is vague.):confused::grey:
  8. [ESFJ] Understanding an ESFJ?

    ESFJ Forum - The Caregivers
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  9. Silly Question #4

    Who would win in an Insult Fight? George Washington VS. Napoleon Bonaparte
  10. [INFJ] INFJs and Conflict

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    As a typical INFJ, I deeply dislike conflict but for some reason I always manage to end up in the middle of fights and arguments with others. :rolleyes: It seems like I'm always the one who's on the receiving end of criticism, insults, backstabbing and disputes involved with others. I would...
  11. [Enneagram Type 6] Picking Your Battles

    Type 6 Forum - The Loyalist
    So this morning I came upon a thought. Last night, I had a really heated argument with my mother. I actually lost my voice. And later, I told her: we are not having this discussion anymore. I will simply 'walk away'. I won't put myself in mental or physical jeopardy anymore. Today, my one aunt...
  12. [Enneagram Type 4] This probably isn't worth creating a thread about

    Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    I didn't see any 4's situational help threads. If they're out there, please redirect me and I am so sorry for wasting everyone's time. So I was in conversation with an 8 today (who I don't talk to often alone because we communicate so differently) and I got on to the topic of this newfound...
  13. [ENTP] The dark side of ENTP

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Come on, admit it. You all have unique stories that places you among the most evil ENTP, and here's a place to share them in pride and disgust. Unlike the hate side this is more our version of what faced us as a problem and how we chose to deal with it. So now, gather my brethren, and show why...
  14. [ENTP] Bad mood insta cure

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    So obviously when people are in a bad mood they are really hard to handle with. But even if I try my hardest to interact nicely with others when I'm in a bad mood it seems like my bluntness shines through more than usually and it feels like every d*mn person is a enemy only out to start an...
  15. Thoughts & Feelings; To Appreciate Feelings.

    There are those who do not appreciate feelings when they do not understand them for feelings can be heard and seen through the tone of voice and the eyes of those around you, if you cannot read people well, you will not see the feelings in their voices, their body language, their eyes. This is...
  16. When was the last time you've been in a fight? Did you enjoy it?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    What does the MBTI personality types here think about this subject? When was the last time you punched someone right in the face? Did you enjoy it? Last time I fought someone I was 13. I used to do that a lot when I was 9. It was good. There was this annoying kid from my class and we used to...
  17. "Call to Arms" (Poem)

    In a land where smiling is expensive taste Where potential is buried, talent goes to waste You must raise your head higher Or else drown in the mire Because the waves are devouring your face Don't let them govern you with expectations Carve your own path and accept no limitations Headbutt the...
  18. INTJ Partner and Socialising

    Myers Briggs Forum
    I've been with my INTJ partner for just over two years now and since probably 6 months into our relationship I noticed that each and every time I try to arrange to go out with friends (9/10 times with her also - and if not, she is always invited) she always finds something wrong with it, or a...
  19. [ISFP] ISFP Have you ever been in a fight?

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    As a type that values harmony and detests conflict, I'm wondering if any of the ISFPs around here have ever actually been in a fight? As in an actual physical confrontation? I've never been in one, but I think there might be things that would provoke me enough to take a swing at someone. Say...
  20. [ISFJ] My ISFJ mom won't talk to me.

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Okay, ISFJs, I need your help. Long story short, a couple nights ago, my mom started telling embarrassing stories about me (several of which aren't true and all of which she knows bother me) and no matter how much I asked her to stop, she wouldn't let up. I lost my temper and called her a...