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  1. [ENFP] Do You Think She Forgave Me?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I'll give you the abbreviated version. I am an INTP. Last year I met a girl in college. She was an ENFP (Positive because I was the one to show her the test). I adored her, she radiated positivity, and was extremely friendly, but she was seeing someone. Despite this, she led me on. It was...
  2. [Enneagram Type 1] Grudges, forgiveness, revenge

    Type 1 Forum - The Reformer
    How long do you tend to hold grudges for? Is forgiveness plausible most of the time? And the fun part: revenge. I'm the type of person who's pretty relaxed and it's very hard to push my buttons. But once you do, i basically erupt and either you get one warning or you get kicked out of my life...
  3. How far will you go to forgive someone, and who do you consider a friend?

    Like the word symbol love in Greek, I have different levels, really, of who I will consider a friend, but the majority will fall much closer to "acquaintance", i.e. someone certainly not an enemy; someone I can exchange banter with, even admit I am having a hard day, and I'll listen to him...
  4. Apologies ~ and time for a break!

    I don't think much of anyone reads the blogs, but if you do, and I have offended you in any way, please know that it was not intentional. In addition to having a lot of difficulties with depression, I've also had some major things to deal with. I know that I may have failed or forgotten to...
  5. Are INTPs more forgiving than INTJs?

    NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects
    I've heard a lot of INTJs say that when their trust is broken, you'll never get it back, while INTPs don't seem to make a point of saying that. Are INTPs more willing to forgive than INTJs? Why would that be?
  6. Letting go of resentment and anger.

    Resentment and anger if allowed to linger and flourish will rob you of happiness. I know because I have allowed these emotions to have a place in my life far too many times. Throughout my life I've wasted a lot of time and energy being angry with those who have wronged me. It took me much...
  7. Dealing with depression and awkward people, and being different.

    General Psychology
    Okay, so, I have a certain view on life that's not really all that rigid. I mean, I see things as fluid and therefore, forever changing in form from one moment to the next. I look at time like that, as a river of entropy that changes things as moments go by, time being the experienced effects...
  8. [ISFJ] Conflict avoidant ISFJ guy dumped me. Is there hope for forgiveness and friendship?

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Hi there, I'm an INFP woman and have been dating an ISFJ man for almost a year. We got along really well and love each other but he is African, Muslim and younger than me and I'm a white, non religious older woman so his family strongly disapproved of our relationship and pressured him to dump...
  9. [INFJ] Forgiveness

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I know there are old threads on INFJs and forgiveness, but reading through them, nearly all infjs said that they can't help but forgive? I feel completely differently, does anyone else feel the same as me? : If you do something that makes me like you less, I will never forget it. I can tolerate...
  10. [ENTJ] Would you really cut off a girl you like, FOREVER, with no future possibilities?

    ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    I'm an ENFP, this ENTJ ended up liking me, he felt rejected so he blocked me on instagram, facebook and whatsapp. I emailed explaining I do like him. He emailed back, not angry anymore saying he doesn't feel the same way, that he isn't looking for a relationship as yet, that he still needs to...
  11. [ENTP] Any ENTPs struggle with forgiveness?

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    I'm really just trying to get some perspective on my ENTP SIg. Other. I'm an ESTP. I feel he holds onto things. He needs lots of time (sometimes days) to cool down after a fight. In that cool off period i basically need to avoid him. This is strange to me, since I need to apologize right away...
  12. "Teach Me How to Let Things Go" (Poem)

    Teach me how to let things go How to keep them from stewing, brewing Burning the belly pride within Tell me how to keep its teeth from gnawing Tearing, searing, biting, devouring Eating its hole through my skin Forcing me to repair once again Teach me how to rewind, remove, replace Save face...
  13. Visionary Art Buddhism.

    So, if anyone reads this,I'm not really a blog person,but this may become normal. Anyhow,I'm an atheist. I'm a leave me alone atheist. I'm not going to tell people to live my life. My life is uniquely fit for me. I do want space to be able to talk about my atheism, but, I think I'm too old...
  14. [ISFJ] How forgiving are you?

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Hi, I am an ISFJ. I have recently discovered these personality types and have been using it as a tool to discover and look into myself more closely. One thing that i have realized is that I am an extremely forgiving person. One example is in my last relationship. It ended several months ago...
  15. [INTP] INTPs: Do You Hold Grudges?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    If you're in the "Let me explain" camp, go on then.
  16. [INFP] Did you ever forgive your parents?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Your parents sound so much like mine! ESTP mother, motivated, dominant powerful. INTJ father – traditional, distant and not too understanding. Both of them don't understand me; they're proud of me in many ways, but they never understand me, my feelings or desires. My mother is still upset with...
  17. [INFJ] How Do You Define "Betrayal" and "Forgiveness"

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    In the thread there are a lot of mentions of forgiveness and betrayal. What do the concepts of forgiveness and betrayal mean to you?
  18. Forgiveness

  19. Confessing My Confession

    I have already appealed to higher authorities, but I'm still waiting to hear back. ~I'm not who I use to be, it's clear to see. But back then, when I was me, I changed from me, to who you see. I did it secretly, and it may come back to bite me! I pray you don't judge me too unkindly If, or...
  20. [ISFP] When do people 'cross the line' in your eyes?

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    What type of things do you find really hard to forgive? What does someone have to do for them to 'cross the line' in your opinion---not keeping secrets, hurting someone close to you, cheating on you, being dishonest with you in general? What is the one thing that triggers you, that you believe...