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  1. Myers Briggs Forum
    Does it ever frustrate you when you realize most people you've talked to also find it really difficult to type you accurately or at least find closure to your questions? Lately, I was trying to clear doubts whether I'm a 4 or not. I didn't have these doubts before, and I was even sure of it...
  2. What's my Enneagram type?
    Hey guys, I've been trying to figure out my enneatype for months. I pretty much 100% excluded every type. Tests say 4, but I think that's because I'm an outsider in most social groups, not because I actually want to be different or anything like that. By the way, I'm an INFP, I know that...
  3. Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Hey y'all! I just made this in my free time and I wanted to share this :) Don't take this as fact since it comes from my own noggin and not from enneagram experts. There are some things you might need to consider before reading though : 1. Instincts manifest themselves when said instinct feels...
  4. What's my Enneagram type?
    EDIT : So I made more researches, and I think I'll settle on the 4. 9 seems like it's too "nice" for me lol. Even though it really resonates a lot with me and always will I suppose, it seems, from what I saw and read, like 9's inner worlds tend to be generally softer, more innocent and gentle...
  5. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    I'm a social four and I have this state I can be in where I'm like in this natural state of happiness, freedom, lightness, laughter, like how you feel when you're at a picnic with your family in the summertime. That's like my happy place. It's sooo not this dark intense place that fours are...
  6. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    I came to this realization while responding to a different thread. Fours need people to be obsessed with them, because they are obsessed with themselves. No matter how low a four's self esteem is, there is still a "self" that we nurture and care for inside of ourselves. I believe that even...
  7. Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    He's a classic 4, emotionally expressive, revealing, believing he was inherently inferior, but also believing he was above others, making things a tragedy for himself was easy. He's even stated this, he always made things sadder than they actually were. Can someone explain to me why he's typed...
  8. What's my Enneagram type?
    Hi there! I am fairly new to the enneagram and I am having some real struggles with typing myself. I've known from the first time I read about it that I am either a 5w4 or a 4w5. I am a very solid INFP, if that helps anything. Here are my thoughts currently: Looking at myself, I display a whole...
  9. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    I want to know from experienced, (hopefully) matured Type 4s, what their experience has been like falling in love. I am young and am falling in love for the second time in my life. It's different than having a crush because somehow if I'm not in love, my romanticism will find someone to project...
  10. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    Just want to know..
  11. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    So as of the last year or so, after quite a few years of hard work and research that i've put in, I've reached a conclusion that I am suffering from what's called C-PTSD. I certainly have a narcissist (or someone that suffers from narcissism) in my life, and that person is my father (and others...
  12. Type 6 Forum - The Loyalist
    I'm currently dating what appears to be a dead ringer for an INFJ 6w5 (and I'm an eNFP 4w5)... so far we seem to get along like a house on fire, but I'm just wondering how 6s feel about 4s and what are some of the strengths/pitfalls that you've noticed in that dynamic? Please don't repost...
  13. Intro
    Hi! I'm new here today. Hanging out, thinking of what to say... I'm a 4w5 on the Enneagram, though I get a lot out of studying all the types. I particularly like Naranjo's theories about the types as nine different types of neurosis. And that healing means integrating the things and personality...
  14. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I was reading up on this, and I have to admit, I don't completely agree with this table: Assuming theorist to mean rational: Need improviser Interacts through theorist Communication style theorist Communicates with theorist/improviser At work, promotes...
  15. What's my Enneagram type?
    Hello everyone :tongue: I have always identified myself as 4w3 (100% sure that I have a 3 wing), but recently I have been having some issues with tritypes. I am also a bit unsure if I am sx/so or so/sx. It'd be awesome if you could help! :kitteh: 1. What drives you in life? What do you look...
  16. Heart Triad - Types 2,3,4
    Boyfriend has seemed a very obvious 3 to me until we had this conversation about the overarching survival mechanism of 3: achievement or success. Boyfriend often mentions how he wants to leave his indelible mark in history. He tells me he doesn't just want to win an Oscar, he wants to have the...
  17. Type 4 Forum - The Individualist
    Can you reconcile a soul-sucking job with your sense of identity? Is it possible to balance the two?
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  19. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    As specified in the title, what kind of impression do ENFPs combined with a 4w5 enneagram give off? What were some that you have known like? If you don't know any, how would you imagine the combination to be? Please don't use this thread to pooh-pooh the combination or say that only introverts...
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