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  1. The Happy Thread!

  2. Cant ask a dead man

    I am the dead man without anything to my name. I live for nothing, I am nothing and I am free. I have a mask, and a game I play but I might always be alone. My life is going no where, and I have no one and yet I am happy since I need no one with me. Ill die alone and I accepted it, I have no...
  3. Letting go of resentment and anger.

    Resentment and anger if allowed to linger and flourish will rob you of happiness. I know because I have allowed these emotions to have a place in my life far too many times. Throughout my life I've wasted a lot of time and energy being angry with those who have wronged me. It took me much...
  4. [INTJ] Communist, Capitalist or Anarchist?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Communism- completely equal society(not the soviet union) Capitalist- society governed by monetary power Anarchist- no society, completely free to do anything(but so is everyone else)
  5. What brought u joybeams & peace as a kid? When last have feeling as an adult? How?

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    What brought u joybeams & peace as a kid? When last have feeling as an adult? How? You know that peaceful, joyous feeling of childhood play? Lack of inhibitions. Freedom. Excepting those in child-slavery and similarly severe circumstances, even those with the crappiest backgrounds had at...
  6. [ENFP] Feeling like you're walking through a dream?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Ever since I was a kid, I noticed that sometimes reality just doesn't seem real. Like I've done this before. Not in a deja vu kind of way, but in a detached, kind of dream like state. It's new, but in the same way a dream is. I don't even know if this makes sense haha... I don't get these...
  7. [ENFP] ENFP Rhythm

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Yesterday, I went to visit my sister who had bought a new TV. She asked me to put it together for her, and as I was starting to put it together, a family friend seemed really interested in doing it herself. She started to micromanage and I gave her all the tools and the manual, and then started...
  8. Happy Memory #242 - I Believe I Can Fly

    Professor Actual Factual: It’s best to get those glitches ironed out now. Maybe I’ll have success with prototype number 19. Hm? Brother: Number 19? Freddy: You’ve built 18 others that didn’t work either? Don’t you ever feel like giving up? Prof: Dedicated inventors never give up. What would...
  9. [ENTP] ENTP College Help

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Hey everyone, new to this forum. I became interested in this personality type stuff as my reaction to accidentally attending a rural college started to make me think I had extreme, anxiety, depression, etc. I tried to explain to people over and over again that it wasn't about me being lonely but...
  10. Challenge

    It's actually my birthday soon, so I decided, since I wasn't able to complete a book for myself in time, instead I'll gift myself with a plan. I know, not supposed to think too far ahead. But this is different. This is a plan for existence, because it's fun things to do every day to spur myself...
  11. Happy Memory #007 - Cute Dumplings and a Gazelle

    "Oh, you can poke it if you want to, since I'm eating it later." I was using a fork to transfer dumplings from one plate to the other since we each had an assigned number to eat by my mum. My dad was standing beside me and watching me try to scoop the little dumplings with a fork instead of...
  12. The Perfect Book

    The Perfect Book, much like the Perfect Potato Salad, doesn't exist. It doesn't. They both don't. They both do not exist. Let me repeat that to myself again. They do not exist. They have not existed. They will not exist. There is no Perfect Book, or Perfect Thing. Don't bother planning for it or...
  13. How do I See People?

    Are people born good? Or are they born bad? You know, it's a pretty old debate that's been going on for ages and ages. We're all so concerned with whether goodness is an innate thing, whether it's like some talent that is only gifted to special babies at birth that we forget to ask. Are people...
  14. Settling Dust

    Oh wow. Hrm... where do I start? Well, I had trouble sleeping last night. For some reason, I kept jerking awake and my mind kept circling around I don't even know what. I tried to clear it to sleep, and it just settled on the past memories again and... I made a connection with how I act now due...
  15. It's Not About Me

    I'm an ENFP. I'm just now learning what that means. Yesterday, I sat on a friend's couch and heard myself say, "What's not to love about me? I'm so damn loveable!" This morning as I lay in my twelve year old daughter's bottom bunk (I recently initiated a live-in separation from my husband of...
  16. Wait, I Posted What?

    I always have this dread when I wake up the morning after a night of bouncy-bouncy-happiness posting. How much damage did I cause? Did I get all my words out right? Did I half-explain some stuff that I should have clarified? Did I even read the post topic properly? Does everyone think I'm crazy...
  17. How to get an INFP to not do what you want.

    "The church people are coming over later. If you want to step out of the room, wear something nice." "Oh, that's okay. I won't step out of my room then." "But... They're church people. You should come out and do church stuff with them." "What? No." I can just see the wheels turning in her...
  18. Freedom and Happiness VS Expression and Individuality

    So, I went to bed last night frustrated that I couldn't figure out why was my Enneagram type. Am I a 7 or a 4? Do I thirst for freedom and happiness more or do I thirst for expression and individuality? My mind kept spinning round and round and round, I became so frustrated that the urge to go...
  19. Username Origins

    Well, let's do a blog post on how I decided on my username. Well, not that anyone would care that much, but I probably better write down my thought process before I forget. It's basically inspired from this song: Day by day We have lost our edge Don't you know? Forgotten is the life we led Now...
  20. [ENTP] Do you own any cryptocurrency?

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Seeing as we're the most overrepresented among early adopters of new stuff... Bitcoin and its kind might well be the next technological revolution we've been pining for. Can anything that gives rent-seeking Wall Street types pause be a bad thing?