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  1. Escaping the Friend Zone: your stories and perspectives

    Sex and Relationships
    When I was 17 I befriended a girl at my high school. She was 15. Tall and blonde. In the theatre department, just like me. Fun, smart, very sweet. Probably an ENFP. Really liked her as a friend, but in no way thought of her as a girlfriend. Something about her didn't allow me to consider her...
  2. ISFJ being honest with me (ESFP)?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Hi ISFJs (I hope everyone is having a wonderful fall so far) I'm an ESFP who is crushing badly on an ISFJ (warm, wonderful, generous, sweet guy). How we met: Tinder > hooked up once > kept in touch via text > 2 years later, we began hanging out after he just broke up with his boyfriend. How...
  3. [ISFJ] ESFP crushing on ISFJ who just broke up...HELP!

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    ISFJ being honest with me (ESFP)? Hi ISFJs (I hope everyone is having a wonderful fall so far) I'm an ESFP who is crushing badly on an ISFJ (warm, wonderful, generous, sweet guy). How we met: Tinder > hooked up once > kept in touch via text > 2 years later, we began hanging out after he just...
  4. [INFJ] So there's this INFJ girl...

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    (sorry if this is going to be a very long text) Hey there - I'm a bit confused and would really appreciate your help with this situation :smile: Some months ago, I met a girl in college. We've talked a few times and then exchanged numbers. Since then we've been texting every few days, until I...
  5. [ESFP] Being Friend-zoned by an ESFP

    ESFP Forum - The Performers
    I'm an ENFP and I have been dating an ESFP guy for over 4 months now and we have great chemistry. we share the same interests, never run out of things to talk about, we always have fun together and we're both so spontaneous and just being around him makes me so happy and it's like i have...
  6. [ENFJ] In trouble with an ENFJ

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    So let me get this straight. I'm in a three-year relationship that is basically going down the rails since a while now (or the drain rather!) - and although we need to break-up I'm taking it slow because I don't want to rush the break-up since it means throwing my boyfriend out of my place; and...
  7. [ISFJ] ISFJ Male Here, and I Suck at Dating -Help Me?

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    My first post, here goes ^-^ TL;DR --I open up and become a psychologist to girls I'm interested in, and I don't know what to do-- I just want to lay out what I'm doing and maybe get some feedback on what I could do differently, or even just hearing other people's experiences would be...
  8. [ESTP] ESTPs: from friends to lovers

    ESTP Forum - The Doers
    I have this ESTP girl as one of my closest platonic friends in college. Naturally being an ENTP we'd get into all sorts of shenanigans and questionable but exciting activities (longboarding around campus at dawn, getting drunk the day before finals, climbing into restricted areas, etc.). Come to...
  9. [ENFJ] How do ENFJ's deal with shyness?

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    When I like a girl... my charisma and confidence and flirtiness and fun-loving personality is always a winner. But then as soon as I know she likes me back... I COMPLETELY SHIFT into this extremely reserved, very romantic and affectionate, humble, and shy person. Any kind of flirting that was...
  10. [INFP] How to move past the friend zone?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hey everyone! I've been friends with a male INFP for years now...I found out through someone else last year that he liked me. Naturally he never gave any hints away, or maybe I'm just blind. :P Anywho, after years of him being in the friend zone, I've finally realized just how amazing he...
  11. MALE ENFP's ARE CRAP AT ATTRACTING WOMEN FOR MORE THAN JUST FRIENDS (ADVICE)

    Sex and Relationships
    After having been snooping on here for a while now i think its time for my second post. About me- I'm 21, consider myself a well grounded ENFP, love life, no issues atall apart from the fact that I suck at 'attracting' women!! Don't get me wrong, i'm very good at making friends with women...
  12. [ENFP] Help a hopeless ENFJ?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hi there! So, as the title says, I'm a completely hopeless ENFJ. You see, I've been crushing on a friend of mine for a long time now. Really badly. To the best of my knowledge, she's an ENFP (definitely E, definitely NF, most likely P), so I thought I'd come to you fellow dreamers. My primary...
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