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  1. How Do You Respond To Loved Ones Being Angry

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Basically, how do you react when a loved one (family, mate, friend, etc.) is expressing their frustration and anger, not necessarily towards you, but rather on something you don't have any relevancy in the matter. I'm asking this because I'm extremely sensitive to my partner's mood and...
  2. Outside World is Chaotic and my mind feels like static. Anyone else .... Hi I'm new

    I've been here before, a long time ago, doing the same thing I'm doing now, searching for I guess understanding of some kind, maybe I want to know that the world is not all bad, that not everyone is living to become rich or famous or even living like they are conditioned to, which is not a bad...
  3. [ENTP] Do you guys tend to be awkward at saying goodbye?

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Hi there, I am stuck in a bit of a situation with an entp and am literally going kind of insane over this whole thing (or better him ^^) :frustrating:. So I got to know him via an internship at a school and we were really vibing from the beginning on (as far as I felt about it... i have such a...
  4. [INTJ] What Happens When An INTJ Is Betrayed???????

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    What HappensWhen An INTJ Is Betrayed?:crazy: Betrayed in a relationship, at work, with a "friend", with anyone, by life? Do you walk away? Do you go nuclear? Do you get even? What do you do?
  5. Escaping the Friend Zone: your stories and perspectives

    Sex and Relationships
    When I was 17 I befriended a girl at my high school. She was 15. Tall and blonde. In the theatre department, just like me. Fun, smart, very sweet. Probably an ENFP. Really liked her as a friend, but in no way thought of her as a girlfriend. Something about her didn't allow me to consider her...
  6. [ISFJ] Looking for a friend

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Hi everyone, I’m a 22 yo male ENFP who has trouble making friendships with other guys. I was wondering if anyone would be interested to have some exchanges. My purpose is to grow and mature emotionally and to make a great friend along the way if possible. If anyone’s interested hit me up:)
  7. SX/SP Guide to Friendship with the rest of the world - TIC

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Hey all. So mulling around as always about the trials and tribulations of being SX first, SO last. I was thinking rather than calling is Sexual, Emotional Connection seems more apt. Or Emotional Intimacy. I think that more aptly captures the need. I had a bad "thing" with some friends the...
  8. [INTP] How to make an INTP feel valued

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I'm an INFP, and my best friend is an INTP. I'm a feeler so I naturally talk a lot about feelings. I'm usually rather quiet but I talk more when I'm with her. Maybe more than I'd like to but it's okay. She also sometimes talks about her feelings, which I take as a huge sign of trust. I...
  9. [ENFP] wanting to meet any ENFPs :)

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hi, I probably don't really belong here since I'm an INFJ, but I was wondering if there were any ENFPs who would like to talk? I realise that the MBTI classifications don't always completely apply to every single person, but going off of the test, INFJs and ENFPs are mirror personalities and are...
  10. ENTP with ESTJ questions, please help!!

    Myers Briggs Forum
    So I'm a female ENTP and my best friend is a male ESTJ. We had been friends with benefits for a while and then I started developing feelings. For the sake of our friendship, I stopped sleeping with him. I didn't tell him outright that I had feelings for him but told him I was going through some...
  11. INFJs, do you believe in the "friendzone" and if so, is it a bad thing?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Hey all, I've been friends with this INFJ for 4 years now, and over the last few months I've developed romantic feelings for him. I've been trying to read him for the longest time but he is so hard to read, so i finally decided to just be direct with him. I was talking to him a few days ago and...
  12. Guy friends vs Girl friends discourse

    Sex and Relationships
    This is specifically about friendships between men and women. In my short 21 years on this planet, this topic has come up many many times before. This specific question is not whether or not men and women can be just friends. I don't know if this is a cultural thing but the only people I have...
  13. [ENFP] Friendship or Romantic Interest . . . ?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Do you ENFPs prefer ESFPs as friends or romantic partners?
  14. [ENFP] Where is my ENFP?!

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hey ya'll. I'll keep this short (maybe). My best friend is an ENFP. We're really tight - we've been friends years, we typically hang out once a week if our schedule permits and it's not uncommon for us to send a few texts back and forth daily; blahblahblah, you get the gist. BUT every once in a...
  15. [INFJ] "I can't be the only one who's worried about their future..."

    Hi! Bless you for clicking this thread! My stats: INFJ Ennegram 9w1 sx/sp Trans & Gender neutral, pronouns: they/them A bit lonely; needs friends who share interests (see below) Master mood-based playlist-maker On-and-off artist trying to start a career in concept illustration (finally)...
  16. 4 - 4 Friendships / Relationships?

    Heart Triad - Types 2,3,4
    I have no close four friends and I am terrified of having any relationship with a four. A four-four relationship seems wild. If anyone has any can you describe them? If you can, specify what their wing is and their instinctual stacking is. (I am very nosy)
  17. I'm trying to be friends with this girl...

    Advice Center
    So, I'm trying to become friends with a girl from my school (I'm also a girl), she's a couple years younger than me, but anyways, I've talked to her once, only through messaging her, and as it might be a while before I get to talk to her in person I'm trying to work out how I can build a...
  18. [INTJ] Are These Signs Of An INTJ Being Interested?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Was hoping I could ask for a list, but I realized how hard that would be to do out of thin air. So I think this INTJ guy I'm friends with might be interested in me, but not too sure. This guy has well developed Fi so its especially difficult to tell. Ive made a checklist. Please check "X"...
  19. [INFJ] INFJ Pen Pals anyone?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    18 years old INFJ here, I'm curious if anyone (preferably around my age) would like to be pen pals? I think it'd be amazing to talk to other INFJs, so PM me or comment if you're interested!
  20. Therapist, Life Coaches, etc. (your experiences and insights)

    General Psychology
    Things have come to a head, a tipping point if you will, for me in my life. Lots of changes happening in family and friend relationships...the death of the relationships, the strain, the grieving, but the optimism and excitement at new relationships to come. So since I don't have much support...