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  1. [ISFJ] A curious INFJ

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Hello there you wonderful people <3 I've only all too recently gotten into MBTI, and unfortunately in all of the information out there, there seems to be a major divide between sensors and intuitives. It's a shame, because now that i've learned all i need to know about the intuitive types, i'm...
  2. [ISFJ] [ISFJ] Best Way to Ask for Help?

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Howdy, ISFJ here. I know that ISFJs REAALLY struggle with opening up about their own feelings and asking for help when they need it. Personally, I can ask for help when it doesn't involve my own feelings, but if I'm in a really bad mental/emotional place I feel like everything shuts down. If...
  3. [ENFP] My ex-ENFP best friend ghosted me under very weird circumstances

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    This is gonna be long, so bear with me. So it's about me (25F/ENFP) and my former best friend (22M/ENFP) We met nearly 4 years ago online and met up in person soon after. I developed a little crush on him and immediately let him know, only to get rejected. Feelings didn't run so deep, so I got...
  4. [ESFJ] What do you do when....there are no friends? How to be alone?

    ESFJ Forum - The Caregivers
    So I am in a rather unique situation. Basically, I live overseas at the moment. I used to have a lot of friends who were all travelers, like me. Well, they've all gone back to their home countries. Last year I did my best to make some new friends, and I discovered that, sadly, you cannot force a...
  5. INFJ struggling with best friend, looking for advice

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
  6. Would you like to call sometime?

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Hi! ... *5 minutes later* Well I can't think of a good way to begin this, so I'm going to awkwardly draw attention to that and then move on. :) I'm lonely, would like to make new friends, and am wondering if anyone would like to Skype sometime? Or WhatsApp call? Typing is great and all - and...
  7. [INTJ] What Happens When An INTJ Is Betrayed???????

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    What HappensWhen An INTJ Is Betrayed?:crazy: Betrayed in a relationship, at work, with a "friend", with anyone, by life? Do you walk away? Do you go nuclear? Do you get even? What do you do?
  8. [INFP] Do You Feel Like You Make Boring Company?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Okay. This is a big problem for me. I suck at conversation. The only time its kinda okay is when I first meet them. That way theres questions to lead with and to go on about. But after that I'm complete shit. I run out of ideas of what to do because I'm really a watching tv shows online and...
  9. Sharing to Connect.

    General Psychology
    I just (on a desperate whim) did a google search of "conventionally good looking and lonely". I usually don't find many gems (who does right? a gem is hard to find) in the search and end up disappointingly weeding through irrelevant results and dated forums. Short back story: I had plans for...
  10. [ENFP] ENFP "The Just Be Friends Speech"

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I'm wondering if ENFPs here... 1.) Try to be friends with exes/dating partners they break up with? 2.) Accept being "friend zoned" by another? I'm friends with a number of introverted intuitives who, with pain and hope for the future, do remain friends with men and women who tell them they are...
  11. Did you come here broken?

    General Psychology
    I am using "broken" as an umbrella term here for psychological problems, existential crisis, depression or other mental health issues (basically whatever you want to class as broken) "I ask this because I notice new members usually begin their journey on PerC making threads that hint towards...
  12. Important lesson on defining friendships

    SJ's Temperament Forum- The Overseers
    I recently again faced the dread of not having "real" friends and talked about it with my boyfriend. Due to the media and past experiences I developed the belief that to be friends with someone two (forgot the third one) criteria had to be met: You have to meet regularly/often You have to be...
  13. [INTJ] INTJs and arrogance

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Hey there, mainly posting for a friend, but I've been noticing a pattern and got curious. It's about INTJs and arrogance problems. My personal experience in short: I had a friend who claimed he was fully matured at 16 because: "INTJs' only problem is their arrogance, but I'm not arrogant so I'm...
  14. [INFJ] How to win a friend back?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hi everyone INFJ here.. I lost my only close friend (she's ENFP i think). Before she flew back to our home country she asked me a couple of times to join her farewell party. During that period I have been struggling with depression, not only that, she had been clingy to me that I dislike (no one...
  15. [INFJ] INFJs, do you believe in the "friendzone" and if so, is it a bad thing?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I originally posted this in the myers briggs forum and then realized i posted it in the wrong place. so, sorry if you're seeing this for the second time! Anyways, I've been friends with this INFJ for 4 years now, and over the last few months I've developed romantic feelings for him. I've been...
  16. Introvert - Group Setting vs One on One

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Just curious, am I the only introvert out here who prefers to be in a group setting vs one on one with a friend? I find there is less pressure for me to come up with conversation, and I feel more comfortable chiming in and bouncing off other people. When it's one on one I don't always have...
  17. [ENFJ] ENFJ friends? Or anyone? :)

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Hi~ I wanted to maybe make some ENFJ friends, since I don't know many~ actually, I'm willing to make friends with any types, so feel free to message me! I'm an INFP btw xD
  18. [ENTP] Which types can you actually get along with?

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    I'm not talking about passing the time chit-chatting, i mean doing fun activities and having good discussions. I posted this because for some reason i always get along very well with ENTPs. Probably not all of you will appreciate us ESTPs as much, but i'd like to know what you think of /how you...
  19. INFJ here! Anybody want to become friends??

    Hi! I am an INFJ female that just joined Personality Cafe. Here are some facts about myself: ~I am an INFJ -T female. ~My enneagram type is either 1, 4 or 5. I get different results but think of myself as a 1/5. ~I am half Swiss, quarter Korean and quarter Japanese. ~I am a Leo. ~I am...
  20. What types do you get along with and which ones you don't ( according to experience )

    Myers Briggs Forum
    So what types do you get along with and which ones don't you get alone with , and even ones your indifferent of. According to your own personal life experience ? I'll start. And again , just my life experience so far. ( Might include assumptions but I'm just going off my experience ) ( * Get...