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  1. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    A few days ago me and my friend got into an argument. For some insight, me and this friend never argue. We’ve been friends for ten years and have only gotten into 4 big fights throughout. The thing that bothers me is the 3rd recent biggest fight we’ve gotten into happened in May. And it’s...
  2. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    This is gonna be long, so bear with me. So it's about me (25F/ENFP) and my former best friend (22M/ENFP) We met nearly 4 years ago online and met up in person soon after. I developed a little crush on him and immediately let him know, only to get rejected. Feelings didn't run so deep, so I got...
  3. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
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  4. Type 7 Forum - The Enthusiast
    Hi! There is a 7w6 so/sx ESFP that I've been in the same class as for many years, but we've never really talked much. we go to a relatively small school (50-60 people in a grade..) Mostly because we don't have many similar friends and I am pretty introverted and not very inclined to go up and...
  5. Intro
    So here is a question. How does one interpret an INTP, fascinating as they are, who also has Asperger? He is the most interesting fellow, who throws my mind through a ringer of complex wonder. I am an ISFP. I cannot lie. I held a slight crush once upon a time. However, I am one who if a...
  6. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I noticed from a young age that I always that friend people will go to for help or vent. That shoulder they can cry on and trust. However, it was always difficult for me to find one that I was able to connect with and be vulnerable with. I find it very hard to be vulnerable with friends. I...
  7. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hi everyone INFJ here.. I lost my only close friend (she's ENFP i think). Before she flew back to our home country she asked me a couple of times to join her farewell party. During that period I have been struggling with depression, not only that, she had been clingy to me that I dislike (no one...
  8. ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    Dear ISTPs, you are so mysterious, distant, and talented. Also, you somehow manage to be badass with a hint of cute (I see that inferior Fe peeking out). I want to get to know ISTPs better and I want them to like me. I know that the Fe "Hi, how are you/You're so cool/I love you/Can we be...
  9. Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Hey all! I'm a happy go lucky number 2 that loves FIXING! But I'm aware of that most of the time and now prefer to key in on what makes others tick and do things the way they need them. That being said, a close friend of mine (not-romantic), is a 4 and withdrawing for various reasons. I'm...
  10. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I currently know 5 other INTJs. I am always very intrigued when I find someone else like me but when I become closer friends with them, the relationship is always very strained and uncomfortable. The first INTJ I ever met was my college roommate for 2 years. We became very close and did a ton of...
  11. General Psychology
    Hello, I would like to know how do you treat your friends? I have seen differences in how friends are treated by people of different cultures. Example- -- People from Asia and Middle East treat friends like extended family. They get invited to family events. Friends are made with the intention...
  12. ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    How ya hanging, ladies and gentlemen? So basically, I was just interested what types your squad consists of and how you all get along. My squad at the moment has six people in it and the types are: ENFJ (F) INFJ (F) ISTP (M) ENTP (That's me :wink: ) INFP (F) ENFP (M) We're all very close, but...
  13. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hi, I'm an ENTP and I don't know how to deal with my ENFP friend. We are both girls and we know each other since our early teens. We quickly became inseparable BFFs as we both have many hobbies in common, she is almost two years older, but you wouldn't know the difference. The problem is...
  14. ISFP Forum - The Artists
    My best friend is an ISFP and I love her but sometimes she takes advantage of me. She's a huge financial drain. She never specifically asks me to pay for her, but she'll hop in the car when I go out to eat and then awkwardly sit there and say she can't order anything because she doesn't have any...
  15. Myers Briggs Forum
    I've read that this relationship is no good, but that confuses me because I think the one I'm considering works relatively fine, at least the friendship has been.. I've worked to understand this INTP and even got him to take a few other personality tests and wanted to know what other people (who...
  16. Intro
    Hello! I am new here and I couldn't decide the title. If I had to describe myself in one word, it would be 'INTJ', but it does not describe me enough, does it? Let us start by how I decided to join this website. I was searching for some INTJ friends (after some careful thinking, I came to the...
  17. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hello. Somewhat antisocial INTJ here. A couple of the best friends I've had have been ENFPs, but sadly we grew apart and I am really bad at keeping in touch with people I don't see that often. I'm in a new city and finding it hard to make fast friends, and I now find myself missing the fun side...
  18. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello, I wasn't sure if I should put this in the INTJ forum so I thought I'd ask you guys first... So I have an INTJ friend who is great I like him but we talk a lot. (*we met online he lives fairly far from me but we plan to meet up over the summer) And when I say a lot I mean for like 5...
  19. Myers Briggs Forum
    So, I'm really struggling in one of my friendships with an ESFP. We've been friends for a few years now, and I felt like we've been fairly close—we've both shared deep things about ourselves, and have stayed out talking multiple times. We've shared a lot of laughs too. We were college...
  20. ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    Hey ENTJs, what do you guys think of an ENTP as a potential romantic interest? I have a good friend who is an ENTJ and sometimes he practically treats me like his gf. When we first met, there was instant attraction but as we gotten to know each other we have had some blatant differences. He...
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