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  1. INFJ + ISTP Relationships

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Hi there! I'm an INFJ in a relationship with an ISTP. If you're an ISTP or INFJ who is friends with or in a relationship with an INFJ/ISTP respectively: What do you guys consider the pros and cons about the other person and what are the pros and cons of the relationship itself? Thanks! :)
  2. [ISFJ] A curious INFJ

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Hello there you wonderful people <3 I've only all too recently gotten into MBTI, and unfortunately in all of the information out there, there seems to be a major divide between sensors and intuitives. It's a shame, because now that i've learned all i need to know about the intuitive types, i'm...
  3. [ENFP] My ex-ENFP best friend ghosted me under very weird circumstances

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    This is gonna be long, so bear with me. So it's about me (25F/ENFP) and my former best friend (22M/ENFP) We met nearly 4 years ago online and met up in person soon after. I developed a little crush on him and immediately let him know, only to get rejected. Feelings didn't run so deep, so I got...
  4. ENTP - platonic or romantic?

    NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects
    My question is, how to know when ENTP is showing just platonic interest in you, and when it's something more? Are never-ending questions any indicator?
  5. [INFP] How often do you see your friends?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Self explanatory title. I only see my "friends" at least, once or twice a year. Hence why I put friends in speech commas. I know these people, I get along with them, but do I really know them? To be honest, not really. They're not acquaintances, but it feels like they're not close friends...
  6. [ENFP] INFJ looking for ENFP pen pals

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Ok, without really getting into it here, I'm trying to be more social, but I'm a HUGE introvert. I also don't think it helps that although I work in the creative department shall we say, of my company, I'm often doing work and installations in the view of customers and therefore am constantly...
  7. [ENFP] An INTJ Conundrum

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    My best friend forgot my birthday this past Monday and I was upset and called him out on it. To make this short we had an argument (about that and other things) and I said maybe we should talk less for a while which he didn’t respond to. I messaged him the other day to fix our miscommunication...
  8. [INFP] INFP Long Distance Friendship

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I recently met an INFP boy when working in another state. After my first conversation with him, I thought he was quite sweet and felt an attraction to him. The two of us were never particularly close compared to our friendships with other coworkers, but we were respectable and observant with...
  9. [INTJ] What Happens When An INTJ Is Betrayed???????

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    What HappensWhen An INTJ Is Betrayed?:crazy: Betrayed in a relationship, at work, with a "friend", with anyone, by life? Do you walk away? Do you go nuclear? Do you get even? What do you do?
  10. [ENFP] How Do You Deal With Ghosting In Relationships/Friendships?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I recently got ghosted while dating for the second time. I find myself stressed because both "ghosts" happened under the exact same circumstances: what appeared to be a great first date, followed by a woman accepting a second date, and being ghosted a few days later trying to set up the second...
  11. [INFP] Do You Loiter Around Exes?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Both of the two main relationships I've been in were with INFPs. I ended one, and the other she ended it. What's weird is that both women "loitered" or "orbited" around me for many months, if not years, occasionally finding excuses to get in touch. But they were not "hey, how are you?" type of...
  12. [INTJ] Does he want to be friends? (Married INFJ/f, Single INTJ/m)

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
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  13. [INFJ] Should we be friends? (mid 30s, Married INFJ/f, Single INTJ/m)

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Questions to my fellow INFJs, I'm here because I feel like you might understand better what I'm dealing with and be able to speak to straight to my soul :) What's the deal with this INTJ/INFJ connection I've read about? Is there a connection or am I just lonely because I don't have many...
  14. [INTJ] Does he want to be friends? (Married INFJ/f, Single INTJ/m)

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    So... Where to start. I feel like I'm in high school again lol, just a few decades late and with the complications of adulthood. I'm a happily married/f/INFJ, mid 30s, (hubby is ENFP). He is single(?)/INTJ/mid 30s? I'll call him Gary. I attend a one week class with Gary a couple of times a...
  15. [ENFP] Do you ever miss your “old self”?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Recently, I’ve been doing some thinking. It probably sounds really weird and cliche, but I’ve had a really close friend betray me in the worst way possible, by destroying my emotional trust in them, which had been built up for years. Though the entire clash happened years ago, I can still...
  16. [Enneagram Type 3] What do you look for in other people ?

    Heart Triad - Types 2,3,4
    What do you look for in other people ? Which qualities do you like the most ? And what do you expect from a friend or a girlfriend/boyfriend ? (trophey, someone you trust ?)
  17. [INFJ] Am i overreacting? Do I have too high expectations for friendship?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hi everyone, I'm in my final year of college and I've had this small group of friends for the last 3 years (3 girls, 3 guys). We are the following personality types if people are curious/it matters at all: INFJ (me), INFP, ENFP, ENFP, ESTP (the person I was closest to in the group), ISFP (I...
  18. A Young Romantic - INFP

    How can I express the amount of hopelessness that permeates around me? Every day, I have to watch and listen to people needlessly suffering from things that have little to no lasting value. Perhaps it is presumptuous of me to project my values upon others, but it has become increasingly...
  19. [Enneagram Type 8] Type 4 who likes 8's

    Type 8 Forum - The Challenger
    I had a profile on here once long ago, but never did much with it, just thought I'd start over. I'm an INFJ type 4w5. Long story short I've been going through a lot of (positive) life changes over the last year. I put a lot of distance between old relationships that I feel no longer really...
  20. [ISTJ] I am worried that my ISTJ is not loyal anymore.

    ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers
    Hi everyone! I'm an INFJ woman. Recently I am very worried about that situation between me and my ISTJ friend :unsure:. I would be really, really grateful if you could use your amazing analytical skills to help me understand what going on. So let's talk about facts. Situation: - I have a...