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  1. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    What Happens When An INTJ Stops Caring? What do you do? me: 1. As simple as turning off a light switch and leaving the room. The part of an INTJ that matters is simply gone. 2. When an INTJ stops caring, then an INTJ stops trusting. Or Vs Vs. Then. . . #1. 3. When an INTJ stops caring...
  2. Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Hey all. So mulling around as always about the trials and tribulations of being SX first, SO last. I was thinking rather than calling is Sexual, Emotional Connection seems more apt. Or Emotional Intimacy. I think that more aptly captures the need. I had a bad "thing" with some friends the...
  3. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Do you ever have the tendency to not know that you're feeling deep feelings for someone until you've inadvertently hurt them by saying there wasn't a connection (when there was. we talked every day and had been physical after a revelation of feelings), there was an emotional ending to your...
  4. Advice Center
    Hi guys, So, a conundrum. Basically, I'm either ridiculously obsessed with this girl in a platonic way (gal pals, yay!) or, I'm hopelessly in love with her. Neither of these situations are ideal, considering a) she's straight, b) she has a boyfriend (who I like and respect very much...
  5. Myers Briggs Forum
    So what types do you get along with and which ones don't you get alone with , and even ones your indifferent of. According to your own personal life experience ? I'll start. And again , just my life experience so far. ( Might include assumptions but I'm just going off my experience ) ( * Get...
  6. Myers Briggs Forum
    Hey guys, I've just wrote a kindle book that I think can help all of you. It is called "Introvert: How Introverts Can Improve Social Skills, Communicate Effectively, Make Friends, Enhance Relationships & Conquer Stress And Anxiety In Any Social Situation". If you're interested in the book...
  7. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hey, Two of my best friends are ISTP and ESFP. I've been hanging out with them almost every day for almost four years now. I becomed more realistic. This comradeship suits me. But today on internet, I have read that this friendship is uncommon. I wonder why? What influence this friendship has...
  8. General Psychology
    Some of my best friends tend to be ENTP and ENFP, yet I'm unsure if this translates to the realm of long-term relationships with the opposite sex. The main cause of this uncertainty is due to sharing similar views, interests, and possibly lifestyles with other Ni-Se users, which makes me wonder...
  9. ESFP Forum - The Performers
    Hello ESFPs! I have a question for you. Obviously. So, I'm writing about a ESFP (I'm an author), and I need to start developing his lifelong best friend. And ... I frankly have no idea what his personality should be like. I'm an ISTP who has an ESFP friend, but I don't particularly want the...
  10. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Interested in hearing feedback on what ENFPs like about INFJs. :wink:
  11. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello everybody! I've had some social issues lately, which I'm trying very, very, very hard to overcome. (Social anxiety blahblahblah, the age of technology). Anyway the gist of it is that... 1. Commented upon by others is that in group situations I'm always zoning out. I'm very obviously...
  12. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I was wondering if this experience is familiar to anyone and if anyone has any ideas on how to change it? Although I always need time to recover from social interactions I also find them to be very stimulating. After long periods of being a complete hermit, I tend to get a “high” from talking...
  13. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    As an INTP, do you find you ever get particularly jealous? And to clarify, I'm talking about jealousy, not envy. I haven't seen much information relating to this topic. I was wondering how other INTP's deal with jealousy and to what extent you may feel it. It's still a confusing concept to me.
  14. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Greetings, fellow INTPs. So I've been thinking lately about what types I get along with the most, am interested by, or just happen to have connections to. It fascinates me to think about my connections. Here's a small list of my closest relationships: Best Buddy From College: ENTP. Started out...
  15. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I've been in three long term relationships in total. I find that they all end very similarly, and would like to hear your experiences to judge whether this is due to my personality or some inner conflict I'm not dealing with correctly. I'll relay my most recent relationship. It was with an...
  16. Advice Center
    I've noticed all the "friends" and people I don't want come back, but the one I really do want to come back never does. Even if he does come back, we will still have the same problem as before: we have nowhere private to hang out. We tried staying friends who hang out in public but the...
  17. Advice Center
    Every time I make a friend -- no matter if it's a guy or a girl something always happens and I can't trust him/her. I just want a friend to go places with at any time of the day we want to go somewhere without it meaning anything. Yet, always -- either he begins to fall for me and I don't want...
  18. Sex and Relationships
    So I've been sort of seeing this guy. At first we were just going to keep it as friends only but when we talked more about hooking up, etc. he then wanted to hook up but without dating. We haven't done anything but only kissed/made out. He would still hang out with me even when I didn't hook up...
  19. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hello ENFP brothers and sisters. Lately I've taken interest in friendship dynamics and it's interesting to see these dynamics through the lens of the Myers Briggs, so i thought it might be worth talking about friendship dynamics with our type. I'll talk a little bit about my friend first, but i...
  20. Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    Hi, I'm an INFP female, who recently got in touch with an ISTP 9w8 ex-classmate of 11 years. Our story's that we were high school classmates, who never really got to talk to one another, until graduation day, where he approached me to ask about my results. After that, he asked me and another...
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