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  1. How Do You Respond To Loved Ones Being Angry

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    Basically, how do you react when a loved one (family, mate, friend, etc.) is expressing their frustration and anger, not necessarily towards you, but rather on something you don't have any relevancy in the matter. I'm asking this because I'm extremely sensitive to my partner's mood and...
  2. Infj vs intj

    What's my personality type?
    For years I've thought that I was an INFJ. I've taken numerous online quizzes which have always confirmed this, and for the most part I've related to the cognitive functions and description of the INFJ. But recently I've been noticing more and more that there's some major parts of the INFJ that...
  3. Band Camp Revisited

    So, I'm one of the faculty members at a band camp. It was kind of a spur of the moment thing, so I don't get to do too much. I get to play in two faculty bands, judge a talent show, and any other job I make up for myself to do. My main job that I assigned myself is helping kids find out where...
  4. [ENTJ] Professional frustration leading to anger

    ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    One of my best friends is an INTP, he seemingly has a very small fuse when pushed in social situations or verbal discussions/debates with those that he sees as not quite up to the task, or belligerently not adding value to the conversation, or playing the devils advocate. As an ENTJ, I...
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  7. [INFP] Anger, Frustration, Annoyance

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello INFPs! From my own personal experience, it is far too easy to suppress my anger and frustration rather than addressing it. I say, "next time" and attempt to ignore it. However, These things build up over time and I can't help but notice I am becoming a little bit unstable. When people...
  8. [INFJ] When do you get angry?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I'd be interested in hearing how other INFJs express anger and frustration. Does it happen often or rarely and in what kind of situations? I can add my response later in too but I don't wanna influence anyone's answer because I'm genuinely curious :>
  9. [INTJ] INTP male in love with INTJ female( need tips)

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Hello dear intj's. Jhep it's true i'm in love with devil with her death stare and i need some tips from you guys. There is a girl that i like for 8 months. I tried the ignore this feeling. But everytime the love or crush feelings get stronger. She is so unique I really like this intj girl...
  10. [ESFP] ESFP - How to Deal With Overwhelming Anger and Frustration?

    ESFP Forum - The Performers
    I hope someone's sometimes online for the ESFP forum. There's this problem that I have and it's driving me completely insane and I just don't know what I can do about it anymore. My anger derives from endless frustration, of not getting opportunities I want, from not being able to use them...
  11. Verbally abusive father. Lasting affect. How to change?

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    I had a verbally abusive father growing up. He would get frustrated with circumstances (money and providing for his family, dealing with normal life struggles), and then get angry. He could yell at my mom for not writing down something in the checkbook (in the days ways before cell phones), he...
  12. The Pitfalls of My Type Match Compatibility (What I Hate About The Ying To My Yang)

    Sex and Relationships
    This thread is to express things about your Counter Type that don't seem to actually jive with your principles or values, and yet they are still the ying to your yang. This thread is more of an expression of frustration rather than proving why they aren't a right fit. As for me, I am an INFJ...
  13. Not Allowed to have Emotional Reaction Until After Searching for Solutions?!?

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Okay so this is a bit of a rant, but I wondered if any of you have noticed this and what you think? Can you relate? Are there certain types that seem to have this perspective? I've noticed that some people seem to have this attitude that it's invalid for someone to express unhappiness with a...
  14. [INTP] Advice on my beloved frustrated INTP bf

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    So I -an infp- have been dating my intp-boyfriend for over a year, and we've been friends for 4 years. We have a running joke that I'm his emotionally needy girlfriend and that he's my frustrated boyfriend. Lately his being frustrated has been weighing me down, to the point that I feel like...
  15. [INFP] Wanting to do everything, doing nothing.

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi! This is my first thread, I'm new here. Well, I use to read threads sometimes but I wasn't a member. This is what always happen to me, and I wanted to know if anybody feel the same way: Well, you know the importance of things like art, music, movies, painting, etc.have in our lifes. The...
  16. INFJ with flatmate problems

    Hi guys, I'm new here! I've been reading threads on PC for a while now but only silently, waiting until now to join :) I relatively recently became aware of just how introverted I am, ever since going to university, and then I did a personality test to find I was an INFJ. Ever since that test...
  17. [ENFJ] INFP- ENFJ Description of frustations

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Hi, recently I found a description on another website of all problems and special details of every relationship between the 16 types. The website isn't in english but nethertheless I will link it here because maybe I can help someone or if you are interested you can look it up here...
  18. The Venting/Ranting Thread for Science

    Science and Technology
    Earlier this evening, while eating a dinner in a pub it struck me how great the impact of misinformation on the internet is to the world. I was speaking to someone about some simple quantum mechanics, but that leisurely chat went down the drain after I had to explain that a photon really does...
  19. [INTP] How Does a Frustrated INTP Produce His BOOK?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Suddenly an INTP asked advice how to finally write his book (no idea the subject - doesn't matter). He assumes he should be able to ... and cannot. What do you guys know about yourselves that could help him produce?
  20. [ENFP] Does ANYBODY get my N-ness?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I simply would like some ideas: What causes frustrations between an ENFP child and his ESFJ/ISTP parents? Where is the disconnect?