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  1. Straight Homosexuals - People who can romantically love someone, but gay or asexual

    General Psychology
    In my research on people, I'm beginning to identify people who are gay, or people who identify or prefer to associate with people of the same sex, and have no interest in people of the opposite, yet can become romantically attracted to, or romantically love someone of the opposite sex. This...
  2. [ESFP] ESFP men - Do a lot of people assume you are gay?

    ESFP Forum - The Performers
    I have an ESFP friend (20 yers old) who has been struggling with this issue for years. A year ago he moved to a new place and because of his quirkyness / random dances ect people started believing he was gay. It got to a point where people tried to tell him he was gay when he clearly said he...
  3. Hey! I'm a newbie

    Hi there. My name is Rae. I made an account yesterday and I already feel like I'm learning a lot. I think I'm an INFJ 4w5 SP. But, I'm trying to learn more about myself. I guess that's mainly why I signed up! Anyway, hiya! I hope I get an opportunity to interact with some cool people on here.
  4. Anyone have this problem?

    Sex and Relationships
    Hi all! I've recently taken the MBTI test and discovered that I'm an INFJ. It was only an online one but reading the synopsis was like someone finally turning the light on for me.The problem is, feeling like a misfit had become so normal, that I've not always followed my gut and just assumed I...
  5. What Percent Gay Are You?

    Member Polls
    Anywhere from 0 to 110. Feel free to explain how you evaluated your own percentage gay rating. For example, I said around 30 percent. I feel closer to women and think they're more attractive, but I could better envision a functional relationship with a man and would rather have straight sex.
  6. [INFP] On Being

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Being a lesbian in Alabama is easier than being an atheist in Alabama.
  7. [ENFJ] ENTP (me) starting to Fall To An ENFJ girl with Gay Friend Giving Me Mixed Signals

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Context: We are workmates (I know, don't shit where you eat but I am willing to take some risk just so because I know I can get away with it). Basically, our team is composed of 5 men (3 of them are married, me and another guy are single). Last January, this girl came from a different project...
  8. [INFJ] ESFP man crushing on INFJ man - ADVICE PLEASE

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Being an ESFP who is very upfront with flirting and feelings, trying to figure out this INFJ is confusing me. Any INFJ's insight on trying to understand this is helpful. Even if you aren't LGBT. HELP! This will be a long post. Sorry. The Se in me remembers every detail and feels the need to...
  9. [ESFP] How to win an ESFP back

    ESFP Forum - The Performers
    Last year I feel deeply in love with an ESFP and I haven't stopped loving him since. In the beginning I took an instant liking to him, which is unusual for me as it takes me a while to warm up to people. But with him I realised he was something quite special and I didn't want to let him go. It...
  10. [INFP] Breaking Up Struggle

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi Guys, Long story...I apologize for the novel. Firstly, my ex never took a personality type, but if I had to guess after four years of being with him I would say he is most likely an ESFP type if that makes any of this make more sense to any of you. I met a guy my first year transferring to a...
  11. Hiiiiii friends!! (ENFP) (gay af) (supes cray)

    Hellooooooo! it's me, I was wondering if you knew that was Adele singing. I hope, that you did. Ok I'm done. Anyway hi I'm clichechoas! I'm 20, pursuing a double degree in (BS) psychology and (BA) communication. Ooooh, now it's an interview.. Hm... Okay well I like a lot of things, so...
  12. personality is a journey w/out a destination

    Gawd, self discovery is tiring lol I'm new on here, but i've posted by MBTI, enneagram tritype, 3D psyche, NPSP, big 5, MOTIV in my biography on my profile. my social-psychology influences would be gay, white, male, young adult, unitarian universalist (religion), lower-middle class, american...
  13. On The Causes of Homosexuality: A Scientific Standpoint

    Sex and Relationships
    I'd made this thread on the "Science and Technology" subforum; about homosexuality in fruitflies. But, due to external circumstances and the reception of new information; I now present here a new thread. Basically, it's been determined with scientific data the fact that homosexuality isn't "a...
  14. [INFP] He came out to me as bisexual, and now avoiding me?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I am an INFP female, who has had a mostly platonic friendship with an IN*P male for several years. We spent many months going on quasi-dates, and nothing really ever came of it, but we became close friends in the process. He recently got back in touch, and told me about a casual girlfriend he...
  15. [INFJ] Male INFJ - Male ISFP - Relationship

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hey! This is my first post here. I'm a 22 year old male INFJ, currently "hanging out" with a 23 year old male ISFP. So far, we've gotten along incredibly well: we're both graphic designers with strong aesthetic senses, we both love movies, and have morbid senses of humor. Being the...
  16. ENFP feelings jam, anyone?

    Sex and Relationships
    i'm feeling so.. bleh. i just started at a new school, met this good-lookin' dude, starting chatting with him. u know:cool: so we started talking about really weird fetishes and stuff, and just for laughs i said "you'd probably be into some really weird shit if you tried it." and like he...
  17. How would an ENTP go about getting an ESFP crush?

    Sex and Relationships
    Hey guys! I'm new here, so please bear with me... I'm female (ENTP). I've had a crush on an ESFP girl for quite some time now, but she has a girlfriend (Unknown MBTI). I've spent a bit of time acquiring information on my crush. She enjoys roleplaying, cosplaying, photography, and creative...
  18. [INTP] If an INTP lesbian shouts in a forest, can anyone hear her.......

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    ....or does she even exist?????!!!! So if approximately 1 % of the global population is an INTP female (correct me if I'm wrong) then does that make an INTP female lesbian pretty much non-existent? Any statistics or messages of hope welcomed !!!! (re. chances of meeting another one). Really...
  19. Eating Disorders in the Gay Community

    General Psychology
    Here's a really helpful article. Discuss.
  20. [INFJ] Advice for an INFJ (me) who likes an INFP

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hello guys, I have feelings for my friend who happens to be an INFP and I am thinking of flat out telling her that I like her (yeah, yeah we're gay) since expressing my feelings is pretty much impossible for me. I am not flirty at all and since I am not 100% sure about her feelings and since...