gifts

What is your main, general goal in life? I like to be successful and competent so I don't need to suffer. When I'm not suffering, my imaginations make me satisfied and I become more confident. I also like to influence people that way. But I may like some short-term pleasures to get satisfied...

Hey everyone, here is an alternative to tritype descriptions that I’ve written over the past few weeks. I wanted specifically to focus on the inherent gifts and challenges that each archetype has. Each tritype is divided in four paragraphs: first is the natural gift, second is the ideal work or...

Trying to discern if this is just a thing with my girlfriend or an INFP thing. But she just showers me with gifts big and small. It could be writing sweet messages in calligraphy, buying me local artisan goods, making me my own blend of tea, or buying me lots of clothes. Perhaps every 2nd time I...

Hi ESFPs Not sure how much traction I'll get on here but looking for gift ideas.. I've got a suspected ESFP friend who's turning 27 soon. Random facts she's going on holidays to Europe soon and I think she also wants to get married. Now she's dating one of my closest friends so buying her an...

Hi! My best friend's birthday is coming up and I wanted to get him a gift he really wants. This particular gift is around $350, but I have saved some money up in order to buy it for him. However, other people have told me that this is unnecesarily expensive, and have told me to get somehting...

Each day in December, till the 25th, post a "gift" for the other INFP members. Multiple posts for each day allowed, just follow the correct dates for each day on the month. Some ideas include: holiday art/story/image/poem you made a .gif you like a song you created a holiday funny a...

ISTP here, trying to think of the most meaningful gift(s) for my INTP. I enjoy giving gifts throughout the year but I like giving the best one for Xmas. So what I have on my list for him are: - 'Portal' bookends (Amazon.com - ThinkGeek - Portal Bookends Blue & Orange Portal - Action Figures) -...

It's almost Christmas time! :octopus: Post pictures of what you would give as a gift to the person above you regardless of budget, shipping time, and other hassles. To guide the next person, fill out these categories: Interests and Hobbies: Occupation: General Aesthetic: Favorites: For...

I am the kind of person that tends to feel sooooo baaad accepting gifts. Don't get me wrong, I love gifts, but it makes me feel bad that the person had to go out of their way to think so much about me and spend money on me. I feel A LOT more comfortable being on the giving end than receiving...

I thought it would be interesting to see what love languages different types have. For example: I'm an INTP and my love languages are quality time and words of affirmation in a close second. Alright, now you go! :puffer:

I was curious to see if there was a pattern in Love Languages for type 9's (or any type for that matter; but my husband is a type 9, so that's where my curiosity crept). So, I would much appreciate your participation in the poll above! What is your #1 Love Language, type 9's! If you do not...

Tell us what you want for Christmas/Hannukah/Any-Other-Holiday-Ever (We love everyone here in INFJ-landia) RULES: Tangible items only. We all want world peace, but come on. Must be smaller than an average car (You might be able to get away with a mid-sized SUV. Maybe.) Cannot cost more than...

I've been thinking about my ISFJ mom and how I'd love to plan some things for her birthday this year. It's usually busy and difficult to put something together, but I want to do something for her since she's always doing things for me and everyone in the family (I have three brothers). I don't...

I'm curious as to how other people and types view Christmastime. A lot of people love Christmastime, others hate it like nothing else. Tell me what you think and why. For me, I generally enjoy it. I like giving gifts to people and Christmastime allows me the excuse of going shopping and buying...

On the radio, a talk show host's question of the day was, what was the weirdest thing someone's ever done for you? A girl said a guy wrote a poem for their relationship, blew it up and framed the three foot poem and mailed it to her. Now that got me thinking, I do feel a little bit weird...

Are you: someone who gives gifts with the expectation that they'll get a service or gift that's equally, or more, beneficial in return. someone who gives gifts but then later takes it back (perhaps when the other person fails to appreciate the gift or return the favor, or for some other...