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  1. [INFP] INFP anger and resentment: Advice/tips on how to let that crap go

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I'm usually not an angry person, but I really get mad when people don't treat me right or violate a value (which I hear is typical INFP). I don't want to hold grudges or hold on to anger, so looking for advice from other INFPs on how they have managed/let go of anger and resentment. Including...
  2. [Enneagram Type 1] Grudges, forgiveness, revenge

    Type 1 Forum - The Reformer
    How long do you tend to hold grudges for? Is forgiveness plausible most of the time? And the fun part: revenge. I'm the type of person who's pretty relaxed and it's very hard to push my buttons. But once you do, i basically erupt and either you get one warning or you get kicked out of my life...
  3. [INFJ] INFJ/ISTJ/INTP Trio Problems

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hi, I'm new here and I came onto this forum because I've seen people give some great advice here. And I need advice. Here goes. A month ago, I discovered the MBTI and was so thrilled at the accuracy of the results that I shared it with two of my close friends, since the three of us have an...
  4. [INTP] INTPs: Do You Hold Grudges?

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    If you're in the "Let me explain" camp, go on then.
  5. Thanks personalitycafe! So Im NOT crazy??? Or at least, not yet...

    For the last ten years, I honestly thought something was wrong with me. I did. I live with an ESTP, an ESTJ, and and ESFP. And we drive each other insane. My sister even once called me Spock(aka lovable vulcan from star trek who locks away his emotions and is hard to know, and then has...
  6. [ENFP] Into the mind of a 21yo frat-boy ENFP male.

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hey guys. So this is how it is for me as an ENFP male. I saw this on another webstie and ill copy and paste. "Between my normal casual persona [which I only reveal to close friends and family] I have two personas which I project: My "self-protective" alpha male persona... I spontaneously...
  7. [Enneagram Type 8] How long do you hold a grudge?

    Type 8 Forum - The Challenger
    I know now that eights are easy to get along with if you know how to deal with them. I did not know that two years ago, when I had a type eight friend. She was very forceful and energetic, nice if you were on her good side, and vicious if you were on her bad side. A couple of years ago, I...