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  1. Guy friends vs Girl friends discourse

    Sex and Relationships
    This is specifically about friendships between men and women. In my short 21 years on this planet, this topic has come up many many times before. This specific question is not whether or not men and women can be just friends. I don't know if this is a cultural thing but the only people I have...
  2. Is it true that guys only like sporty girls?

    Sex and Relationships
    Is it true that guys only like sporty girls? I've noticed that all of the girls who have boyfriends play some kind of sport and sports just aren't my thing..;(
  3. Guys who play Video Games

    Sex and Relationships
    What do you think of guys who play video games? I'm curious to know.
  4. [ENFP] ENFP girls and low self esteem guys

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hi there! I don't know about you, but I seem to attract this type of guys... yes, you know, parasites. The type of negative, introverted guys who seek for attention and suck people's energy. At first I'm not attracted to them, they come to me and show their interest until I get curious to know...
  5. [INFJ] INFJ - INFJ Help Me Please!

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    So I have had a thing for this guy for the past year. I met him on the first day of physics class about a year ago and the first few weeks we didn't really talk despite sitting a few seats apart in the first row of lecture. One day he decided to sit next to me and we started talking at the end...
  6. [ISFJ] Booty Calls: Woes of the Spineless

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    I've been in a relationship for a few months now and am just breaking up with this girl. We're breaking up because we have different future interests: she wants short term, whereas I'm looking for a longer term relationship (potentially marriage). We both still have feelings for each other and...
  7. [ESFJ] How should I give constructive criticism to an ESFJ?

    ESFJ Forum - The Caregivers
    Hey guys! My boyfriend is an ESFJ and I am an INFP. We have been dating for about 5 months, and I'm having some issues with him crossing my boundary lines. We are both christians, and have agreed to not have sex until marriage. So at the beginning of our relationship, we both made separate lists...
  8. [ISFP] Does my ISFP friend, like me, the INFP?

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    :unsure: So, I know this is probably a question that's been asked and answered, but this is my purpose for joining this friendly website in the first place. (Anywho - hi everyone! I'm an INFP!) <3 This fella, I've known him for about 5ish years or so, more or less. I want to know what an ISFP...
  9. Type my newish, nerdyish, male doctor friend, STAT!

    Myers Briggs Forum
    So I finally had a lunch not-really-a-date with a certain friend I've been corresponding with for a while over email. Because of his love of debating a certain political issue on Twitter (and, okay, his nerdy glasses-wearing demeanor), I had this guy pegged as an NT. But now I'm not so sure. A...
  10. The male/female 'f or 't?' dilemma

    What's my personality type?
    So I recently noticed it can be hard to guess if guys are Fs or girls are T, particularly if they are SJ's (whomore likely conform to gender expectations that guys are more T, girls are more F). So my female friend took the MBTI and came out as an ESTJ which shocked me to bits. I've known her...
  11. I feel so bad for INFP guys.

    Ugh, gender roles today are tough on INFP guys. We're all a victim of gender roles... I know for me, they were ingrained into my subconscious from watching Disney movies when I was young. The women were relatable and delicate while the men were mysterious, strong, and level-headed, and my brain...
  12. [INFJ] Harder for INFJs to find a mate?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    This year was the first time I found out I was an INFJ and it's all still very new to me. I'm about to go to college and I am a little nervous as to how I am going to approach dating/relationships. The reason I have my doubts is the loneliness I feel with my family. While they are all together...
  13. [ENFP] ENFP guys are not always gay

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    No offense to anyone gay. I'm tired of people asking ENFP guys if they're gay, or saying that if there had to be one gay guy in the room, it'd be me. Just because we know exactly how you feel, how we feel about how you feel, and how your girlfriend might feel about us being friends, does...
  14. Question for Guys: Pros/Cons of Multiple Roomies??

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Hi guys :) Another article I'm writing for a local Colorado magazine is about men (ages 18-45) who prefer to live with multiple roommates. If you would like to contribute to my article and help me understand better the "frat" life style, I would really appreciate it! Please include your first...
  15. Getting It Started

    Advice Center
    Ok, so I'm sure some of you have had this problem: there's a guy that I really REALLY like. In fact, I can't picture myself being happy without him (sad, i know :tongue:). My problem is, I am extremely shy and timid and I don't know how to express my interest or ask him out, etc without...
  16. [ENFP] Ode to the Nice Guys

    ENFP Articles
    Ode to the Nice Guys This rant was written for the Wharton Undergraduate Journal This is a tribute to the nice guys. The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and bitching about what...
  17. [ESFP] Ways to catch an ESFP's attention and not annoy him?

    ESFP Forum - The Performers
    I'm on this quest to try and 'woo the man' pretty much as long as I don't have to change my own personality for it. I like him a lot and I'm not going to force him in to a serious relationship if he doesn't want it but I don't really know how to catch his attention since the people in my class...
  18. [ENTP] Around what age do you guys seem to decide you want to finally "grow up"?

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    So I've always read how types such as ENTPs and ESTPs take a while to "grow up". Many I've noticed just simply want to "be free" and "explore" without a thought of settling down. From observation, they all seem to go out and get their good jobs but when it comes to dating they just don't want...
  19. [INFJ] Is it ok for guys to carry their partner's handbags while walking around town?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    It's a common sight these days to find guys carrying their partner's handbags for them while walking around town. Some, both male and female, detest the very act, while others are cool with it. Do you think it's an act of chivalry or a sign that the guy is hen-pecked?
  20. [INFJ] ladies do you have the hots for guys in uniform?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I was talking to my INFJ friend today and noticed that she seems to particularly have an intrest in manly men. specifically men in the army or military, navy. I am going to throw in firefighter and maybe even police officers. also has a thing for bad boys. any other women the same?