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  1. [INFP] Anyone else blow things up in their heads?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I'm not sure if this roots from anxiety, or having enneagram 6 in my enneagram tri-type, but I always turn little things into major problems in my head. And I say this unironically: it's a big problem for me haha. It's hard to pinpoint examples because I can explain them all away, so I'm just...
  2. what is the cognitive function of THIS behavior?

    Cognitive Functions
    "I always organize tableware in the restaurant spontaneously (subconsciously!) ,same situation with the stack of magazines in the coffee shop ,my stationary on the desk____and more" could you explain this with cognitive function ? (,or I am just crazy!)(haha)
  3. [INFP] Habit Tendencies Quiz

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    This test distinguishes how people tend to respond to expectations: Outer expectations (a deadline, a “request” from a sweetheart) Inner expectations (write a novel in your free time, keep a New Year’s resolution). Overview of the Four Tendencies: Upholders respond readily to outer and inner...
  4. [INFP] On changing your life - my journey

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Overview: What this is about I am on a mission to change my life and want to document this along the way for others to see and learn from. I want to keep track of my progress and have some indirect guidance from others, so I can report to them rather than just myself. I have been thinking long...
  5. [INFP] My questions concerning a possible life-change-thread of an INFP and for others

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello there! I'm new to this site and I want like to ask you something. I would like to have a place where I can do and experience the following things: -to talk my being forward and get things off my chest, even if not properly articulated and without me having to suppress the urge to...
  6. [INTJ] Mental Games anybody?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    As a kid, I began developing mental habits that helped me escape from my surroundings. These "games" became habits I still do today. a couple of them is to envision I am a walking out of the room I am currently in, then continue walking until I can no longer keep the image. Another game I would...
  7. Imagined Interactions

    General Psychology
    Hello there guys ! :happy: Hey I am posting here because I recently realized I have a problem, which is alos the cause for alot of my unhapiness and my insecurity. I recently realized that for about two years now I have been developing a bad habit for speaking ( or having imagined interactions...
  8. Compulsive buying disorder

    General Psychology
    I suspect that my friend has this. He just can't stop buying stuff, even if he never actually makes use of the stuff he buys! A lot of it just sits there doing nothing. The reason I suspect it's an "illness" is because without fail he will buy something unnecessary every couple of weeks and he's...
  9. [ENFJ] Relationship habits you find yourself with

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Hey all! I haven't been on here in a while. I just went through a breakup. During the whole course of the relationship, I logically understood that my partner was kind of emotionally unstable: easily unsettled by small things and slightly possessive over me. But every time I tried to end the...
  10. [INTJ] What are some driving habits of INTJs?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    How do you drive? Fast, slow, tailgating, safe driving, good driving record, driving in a wolf-pack, driving solo, driving with other passengers routinely (giving rides to friends), listen to music or AM radio or FM radio while driving, drinking coffee routinely while driving, or you don't drive...
  11. [ENFJ] Personal development addicts unite

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    Hi. I love reading topics on mindfulness, literal living in moment by moment being fully aware of the present. Presently I am working to make this a permanent habit by the minute on a daily basis. I am a fan of Dr. wayne dyer and steve palina in this area. For example, I write down the day...
  12. On Self-discipline (1)

    The distractions, the temptations, the nudging, the taunting... It means nothing now. The habit has been formed. The tough days, they're gone, and now I can't stop. Inertia's my bitch. It's not as simple as that though, there's more. The results, the measurable effect of these continued...
  13. [INTP] I Can't Help but Notice Your PerC Hours

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I notice that there are some users who come here more on weekdays and some who are here more on weekends (though I've not noticed specifics). When do you PerC? Edit: This is not actually a public poll.
  14. [INFP] Nervous Energy?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So do many of you find you have a lot of nervous energy that you have to work out in constant habits like bouncing your foot or twirling a pen or things like that? Or do you tend to be really still most of the time? I used to be constantly twitching my hands or feet untill some point in...