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  1. [INTJ] What Does An INTJ Do When Feeling Lonely ????

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Of course, an INTJ can be alone and not feel bad or lonely. In fact, sometimes a lot can be accomplished by oneself. And, sometimes? Solitude is an INTJ's friend. But. . . . . What Does An INTJ Do When Feeling Lonely?? Can an INTJ feel overwhelmingly alone?? Or. . . . is it just the way...
  2. What do dreams mean?

    General Psychology
    Recently we have had lots of discussions on dreams, their meaning, purpose and reason. Some think they are spiritual and they answer questions. Others think them meaningless or purposeless, still others think they work on or resolve the issues that occupy our waking minds. What are your...
  3. Is there evidence for the importance of personality in career choice?

    Education & Career Talk
    Hi Is there strong evidence that choosing a career that fits one's personality or interests is of primary importance in regards to satisfaction or performance ? (For the purpose of this question, personality and interests do NOT include skills or mental ability) Here is a list of scholarly...
  4. Motivating factors: do it for personal happiness vs for fulfilling reasonable goals

    Cognitive Functions
    It seems easy to jump to the conclusion that people who have dom/aux Fi would be more driven to do something because it makes them happy while those who have dom/aux Te would be more driven to doing something because it fulfills reasonable goals. However, this seems like a weak interpretation of...
  5. Why does happiness seem so illusive?

    General Psychology
    Why does happiness seem so illusive? I was asked one day by an advisor, "are you happy?" Happy? I thought, that's never been an equation in my life. I didn't think it was necessary for life, but I'm starting to wonder. I don't consider myself a "happy" person. Don't get me wrong, I've had...
  6. [INFJ] What small things make you happy?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hi all! The little things can make life worth living. I was wondering what puts a smile on an INFJ's face. I'll start: * Saying the same thing at the same time as my interlocutor * A smile from a stranger * The smell of leaves in autumn * Feeling very much in sync with the people around me *...
  7. Is Happiness A Problem?

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Why or why not?
  8. Is Happiness A Problem?

    NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects
    Why or why not?
  9. The Happy Thread!

  10. [ESFJ] What makes an ESFJ happy (explained for an ENFP)?

    ESFJ Forum - The Caregivers
    Hi everyone, This thread is the result of my mum telling me she's constantly unhappy (she's an ESFJ). I came back to live with my parents temporarily after I got ill and had to take a hiatus from work. All I hear is that she's not happy with everything - her 'wasted' marriage, her health, the...
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  12. [INFP] Hacking the INFP Personality...a Trick to Achieve Everything in Life

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello INFP fellas: NOTE: This is an idea that I haven't test but I want to test soon, it would be awesome if you can also test it and tell us how it worked on you. I came with an idea of hacking our personality, using our strenghs to build a bridge to leverage our weaknesses. I'm not sure if...
  13. [INFP] I found the solution to erradicate anxiety from perfectionism

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    This is a technique I baptized as "AlMierdismo", is a word game in Spanish (my mother tonge). In english would be something like "FuckThisShitism", beautiful isnt it? :P To explain you my technique I will tell you my story (how I create it). In my University there is a rule that say "If a...
  14. The Happy Thread!

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  16. [INFJ] April 19th: Bicycle Day. My Experience and Lessons from LSD

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Don’t practice drugs or contemplate obtaining them. They are dangerous. It was April 19th yesterday but I didn't have time to write this. I figured I'd share an entertaining story with you guys. The part that is frustrating is that with such a substance the experience cannot be described...
  17. What can make you happy

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Hey, cheer up man. It's the happy hour, show us what kind of things make you happy gentlemen. PLease, be gentle, happy-sappy as you like, and share your best.
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  19. Songs that make you happy