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  1. [ENFP] Response to a Parent who has a very different MBTI. Thoughts?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Do I hate you? I know I should not, but there is something black and slimy deep in my heart. An infection, pulsing and growing ever so presently. Big and black, seeping into my bloodstream like raw sewage into a spring stream. I hate you, and truly, I don't see passion not to…. Except I know...
  2. Forum Friend Wrote: I Think of Myself As a Person First - My Response 12 2016

    I'm so glad you do identify as a person first. I do when I'm alone, but out with people here much more so than in [S.W. United States, elsewhere], which is why I left [here] when I was 22, well, it's impossible to get away from the backward, obsessional nature of anti-everything contrasting...
  3. [INFJ] Attachment, Personality Disorder, Avoidance, Problems with Intimacy, anyone relate?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    So as of the last year or so, after quite a few years of hard work and research that i've put in, I've reached a conclusion that I am suffering from what's called C-PTSD. I certainly have a narcissist (or someone that suffers from narcissism) in my life, and that person is my father (and others...
  4. [ISFP] Everyone turns on me

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    "Even you my Brutus." It reached a point once when I abandoned everyone for my own sake. This it would seem was the greatest crime. That I'd walk away from them for my own sake, to do my own things, and I did not even care to say goodbye. Or was it that I had walked out of the life that they...
  5. [INFJ] Underdog...?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Okay, so i am curious if anyone else has this issue and whether or not its common.. So, i was sitting and thinking a few minutes ago, then I suddenly just felt an ounce of pain hit my heart..I feel like i've always been underestimated, since early childhood years of course..and whenever i break...
  6. [INFJ] INFJs and Sexual Insecurity

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I posted this on a completely unrelated forum, and then realized that it would be a good idea as well to post it on the forum where people can actually verify if my perception of MBTI types is accurate. The subject is how INFJs tend towards a black-and-white view of sexuality, leading to...
  7. The Ever Unusual Evil Sibling Problems

    Advice Center
    How do I deal with my older sister? My sister is eighteen, and I am sixteen, and I feel like I am older than her and forced to baby her and what not. I don't want to hate my sister, I want to really like her, but I cannot for the life of me get to a place where I permanently love her. Actually...
  8. [INFJ] What happens after someone crosses the line?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hello everyone (if anyone reads this lol) I'm usually very forgiving of people. We are all human and make mistakes right? Now I'm curious. How forgiving are INFJs are after a deep held value has been violated? Does that person lose your trust and/or respect? If so, for how long or is it a...
  9. I despise my best friend's boyfriend- what to do?

    Sex and Relationships
    For about a month and a half now, my best friend has been seeing somebody over the internet. They communicate over video chat and Gaia. Now, my friend is pretty disturbed, and is into some really morbid things. The guy she's seeing is into the same sort of things, and that's how they bonded...