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  1. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    My INFP girlfriend of 4 months randomly dumped me yesterday, it was unexpected and truly a shock. We had, had a great evening together at her moms celebrating Chinese New Year and everything seemed fine until I dropped her off. She had no real explanation except to say she's dealing with various...
  2. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Do you ever have the tendency to not know that you're feeling deep feelings for someone until you've inadvertently hurt them by saying there wasn't a connection (when there was. we talked every day and had been physical after a revelation of feelings), there was an emotional ending to your...
  3. Sex and Relationships
    I felt in love with a man who has a lot of issues, one of them is some kind of mental problems (he is maybe covert narcissist, but it's not sure). Anyway. We met and there was instant chemistry between us. We had great communication. We were almost like best friends since the begging. He asked...
  4. Sex and Relationships
    Hello y'all, ENFP male here who recently got rejected after asking someone out. I met someone on the New Year, and I was really interested in her so I wanted to get to know her a lot better. I managed to get her phone number and eventually scored a date a few days later, and we got as far as...
  5. Blog
    As an INTJ, the idea of “failure” feels distant. Quite often, the two options going into any situation are, as Yoda states, “Do or do not, there is no try”. As a 17-year-old INTJ, having already written a novel, holding a professional degree in mechanical design, a CAD position at a machining...
  6. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello folks I have been dealing with a problem for some time. I am terrified of heartbreak... to the point where it's basically ruining my life. I have been heartbroken a few times in the past although I have ended most of my long term relationships. It has mostly not been too bad, as I...
  7. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Hello, I was just wondering if there were other ENFP's with trust issues or whose gullible and optimistic heart led them to disappointment and heartbreak, and what are your experiences? This is my first time posting a new thread on this forum so I'm sorry if I'm doing something wrong. Also...
  8. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hey guys, especially towards my fellow INFP's I need to get some feelings and thoughts off my chest that I really don't know how to cope with at the moment. So I have recently started dating a guy (ENFP) that I quickly and deeply fell in love with. Probably too quickly. He was the one who told...
  9. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Okay here's a little background to my situation. I was in my first serious relationship (I'm 28). She lived in Oakland and I lived in LA. We met through My sister and her Wife. After several months of dating I ended up quitting my job in LA because I was pretty miserable. After doing a lot of...
  10. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    This is originally from my posting in an INFP forum and originally by me: http://personalitycafe.com/infp-forum-idealists/1056506-really-rough-time-right-now-my-infp-so-made-account-pretty-much.html [Begin Quote] So... In January, only 11 days after first talking to her on discord, I admitted I...
  11. INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    Hi ! This is my kinda strange story: I dated an INTP guy for about a year and a half... he was my first relationship and I really fell hard for him so I am kind of hurt. He did not really seem to care as much about me towards the end, however we had formed a deeper connection and within the last...
  12. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I'm an ENTP and my friend is an INFP. She was bugging me nonstop about who I liked, and I finally decided to just tell her that it was her. She responded by saying "oh, okay" and "that's fine." Now I'm pretty sure that we're still friends, but I'm honestly worried to go to school tomorrow and...
  13. ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Okay, kind of a long read, I'm sorry. I've always kept a positive attitude with myself, the thing I dread the most is becoming a fat bitter man-hag posting on r/ForeverAlone about how all women want is to date assholes blah blah blah, I'm just too aware that that is not only extremely false...
  14. Blog
    Like really. I'm tired. I've been depriving myself of sleep for several days now, for several weeks even. I've been getting sick while recovering from another cold. I just want to have a good night's sleep and wake up in the morning happy as a... happy person. Like, all refreshed, renewed and...
  15. ESTP Forum - The Doers
    Hi One of the loves of of my life was doing drugs, ectasy, ampheathamine, cocaine, marihuana. He has a strong will, comes from a wealthy and intelligent family, has a lot of really good friends and bad friends. I easily ditched him. I met someone I fancied more. Then this bad guy put me in...
  16. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hi One of the loves of of my life was doing drugs, ectasy, ampheathamine, cocaine, marihuana. He has a strong will, comes from a wealthy and intelligent family, has a lot of really good friends and bad friends. I easily ditched him. I met someone I fancied more. Then this bad guy put me in...
  17. NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Hi One of the loves of of my life was doing drugs, ectasy, ampheathamine, cocaine, marihuana. He has a strong will, comes from a wealthy and intelligent family, has a lot of really good friends and bad friends. I easily ditched him. I met someone I fancied more. Then this bad guy put me in...
  18. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I recently met an INTJ who never got closure when his girlfriend dumped him. He says that it doesn't affect him at all anymore. However, a few days after he told me about it, he told me that he couldn't understand why she didn't love him when her family did. I'm used to understanding how a...
  19. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Most happy - My best friend is due to give birth next month. I'm really excited and happy for her :happy: Most unhappy - My ex broke up with me about 2 weeks ago. I still miss him so much :frustrating:. I think I'm probably more unhappy than happy at the moment. Sigh.
  20. INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    You know that phrase, "I'm my own worst enemy"? We seem to always protect ourselves from hurting other people, or from people hurting us, but sometimes I think we break our own hearts. Do you find that you set yourself up for failure, choose to be pessimistic, or anything similar? Not even sure...
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