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  1. Infj vs intj

    What's my personality type?
    For years I've thought that I was an INFJ. I've taken numerous online quizzes which have always confirmed this, and for the most part I've related to the cognitive functions and description of the INFJ. But recently I've been noticing more and more that there's some major parts of the INFJ that...
  2. [INFJ] Problem with confrontation

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I'm extremely confrontation shy but put a lot of importance on honesty too. My ESFP sister has blunt honesty down to an art but I can never seem to be blunt without sounding mean or worrying about hurting someone's feelings. This leads to me often formulating what I want to say in a diplomatic...
  3. What's my Enneagram?

    What's my Enneagram type?
    I've done a free version of the test once and got as my top 3 results Type 2 (score 9), Type 9 (score 8.7) and Type 4 (score 8.7). The top 3 results with wings were 2w1 (score 12.9), 9w1 (score 12.6) and 1w2 (score 12.2). I'd like to add that these were closely followed by 1w9 with a score of...
  4. Sharp-edged NFP or liquid NTJ or something else?

    What's my personality type?
    Is there anything that may affect the way you answer the questions? For example, a stressful time, mental illness, medications, special life circumstances? Other useful information includes sex, age, and current state of mind. I don't think I have anything that might affect the way I answer the...
  5. How Would One Start a Music Career?

    Education & Career Talk
    Just to get to the point for a sec: I really want to be a musician/singer but honestly have NO clue how to even start and have some major issues with shyness to boot. I love music so much and I couldn't think of any other job that would make me happier than just creating music for the public...
  6. Help Me Type MBTI and Enneagram Please~

    What's my personality type?
    Decided to make a new thread because the last thread died like two months ago and I am still not that sure to be honest~http://personalitycafe.com/whats-my-personality-type/148318-can-you-help-me-figure-out-my-mbti-enneagram-type.html#post3774135 Well, based on the cognitive functions, I think...
  7. I Need help with my family...

    Advice Center
    My mom is an emotionally immature person. She has random outburst for stupid things. She's contently looking for a fight with me by provocating me... When she makes a mistake its never bad, but when I do I never use my head, I'm stupid, useless, and never do nothing right.. When I say something...
  8. [ISFJ] Please help! I need ISFJ relationship advice...

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Okay so here's the deal - my ex-bestfriend/boyfriend is an ISFJ, and I need help understanding him. It's been over a year since he cut me out of his life, but I know for a fact that he still cares about me... But he refuses to talk to me, and I don't know what to do. It's a bit of a long story...
  9. [ISTJ] Am I an ISTJ? The test seems to think I am but I don't think so. Help!

    ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers
    So to start off, sorry if this is in the wrong place of the forum. I don't typically do these kinds of things and am not accustomed to the correct procedures of starting a thread. I have been wandering on this forum for a few hours and have really not found any answers, so I found a list of 20...
  10. [ENFP] Am I realy helping this guy out? Give me advice.

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    He cut off friendship but not connection. He said he'll talkto me and that when he ignores me "take it as a warning. He says friends are useless and worthless, that they do nothing in the future. He says "stop trying so hard to like or be nice to me." I told him "I wasn't even trying" He told me...
  11. [INFJ] Share your solutions for depression?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I need some help. I've got a lot to do but I'm feeling overwhelmed and lethargic. Nothing seems to be going right and I feel like there's no point in trying anymore. I know it's just my emotions playing tricks on me, but right now I just can't beat them on my own. Lend some of your advice on...
  12. Help me out people

    What's my personality type?
    Hey all, I have been giving MBTI tests for about an year now. Initially, the most common results were either INTP or INFP. Now, for the past two months, my results have changed, rather drastically. It shows me as an ISTJ. Its a complete new personality almost the oppsoite of the previous ones...
  13. [INFP] Okay so am I losing it or do any other INFP's feel like they may be an empaths?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    So I feel like I'm about to lose it. I have always been super sensitive and highly reactive to other people but recently, I'm starting to feel as though it's been kicked into overdrive. I've been trying to figure out reasons why I've been going in circles for years and years. It drives everyone...
  14. [ENTP] Being Eaten Alive By Limerence: Near desperate & in need of some INFJ/ENTP advice.

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Being Eaten Alive By Limerence: Near desperate & in need of some INFJ/ENTP advice. (I've cross posted this from INFJ forum, hope I don't get into adminee trouble, but on reflection I think I need an ENTP take on this shizzle. Don't be mad Admins, please?) ---- Evening All - I'm going to do...
  15. HELP! ENFJ mom, and INFP daughter always clash!

    Myers Briggs Forum
    My mom is an ENFJ, and I'm an INFP. It's so hard to describe in words, how greatly me and her differ. All I ask for from others is to explain to me a way, in which I can tell her in a peaceful manner that she cannot change my personality, into what she see's fit. I'm not saying that ENFJs, and...
  16. [ENTP] Please tell me, seriously, am I just crazy?

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    So I have this issue, I guess if we can call it that. I often time find myself creating scenarios with a member of the opposite sex in my mind that are based off of small, simple interactions. Such as simply texting with someone or even just in a few chance encounters. It's with someone I find...
  17. [ENTP] ENFP sister of ENTP genius...How not to get hurt? Any advice ENTPs?

    ENTP Forum- The Visionaries
    Hey guys, ENFP here. Me: got it on good authority I'm intelligent, empathetic, often too insistent with morals, make big generalisations (always make sure they're correct in big picture sense, detail orientated people hate them though), love arguing for the sake of it, am getting better at not...
  18. Help me, I can't stand my parents!

    Advice Center
    I am having trouble lately getting my parents to give me more freedom. I do what they want me to: I don't date, I come home on time, keep good grades, have good friends, go to church, etc. Yet, they still treat me like a little kid. They freak out over the littlest things. I just recently got...
  19. sooo....how does this work? ^-^'

    What's my Enneagram type?
    i got Type 1 Perfectionism |||||||||||||||| 66% Type 2 Helpfulness |||||||||||||||||| 74% Type 3 Image Focus |||||||||||||||| 62% Type 4 Hypersensitivity |||||||||| 38% Type 5 Detachment |||||||||||| 46% Type 6 Anxiety...
  20. Need help sounding like an "NF" for med school application. Help a brother out!

    Education & Career Talk
    Need help sounding like an "NF" for med school application. Help a brother out! Suggestions as to how to sound like a potential doctor would be much appreciated. I have no problem with answers being total BS (just nothing too ridiculous, y'know). Aiming for 100-150 words answers for each. (The...
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