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  1. [ENFP] Do you know how to help others without taking responsibility of them?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I have a history of trying to help people who really need it. I realize now that they needed help so much because they weren’t working to help themselves. When I tried to help, I found myself taking responsibility for their lives and for their well-being, even for their decisions. I can’t...
  2. [INTJ] INTJ In The Helping Profession

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Hello everyone. I am here today because I am a 27 year old INTJ who currently works as a youth worker. I've known I was an INTJ for awhile now and have had no complaints with it, but I have always found it strange that I ended up in this kind of work instead of the ones that are more...
  3. [INFJ] How to socialize

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hey! I was always this kid nobody would really talk to, because I was always kinda weird I guess. And if we’re the chameleons, I wonder why that might be, because in all other aspects I identify with an infj personality (now). So, the one thing I wanted from you: how can I find people to talk...
  4. [INFJ] Friends also being projects

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Not that my friends aren't genuinely my friends who I care about and am pathetically loyal to... but I have a habit of making projects out of them as well. Like I notice something I determine they need help with and I basically subconsciously manipulate them to change. I don't do this for...
  5. [INTJ] An INTJ in trouble - how to help?

    INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    Dear INTJs out there, I'm in dire need of some advice on your preferences and needs - though I know that in the end it's all about the individual, I guess this is the closest I can get to knowing what to do (or not to do) in the situation I'm in. I've got a very very good friend whom I've...
  6. [Enneagram Type 2] What type of people do you NOT help?

    Type 2 Forum - The Helper
    Are there certain people or situations in which you simply won't offer or agree to give help? What causes you to avoid or even decline helping certain people?
  7. [ENFJ] HELP! Careers for the ENFJ that PAY!

    ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    I've known since I was a little tike that I wanted to have a job that helps people, but lately I've been discouraged because I can't seem to find one that pays well. I'm not looking to "get rich" or anything, but I would love to one day have a family who I can support comfortably. It seems...
  8. Helpful Information On The Enneagram: Websites, Demonstrations, and Tests

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    It seems like there is an endless abundance of information on the Enneagram and its inner workings. However, with such a large variety of knowledge it can become overwhelming and confusing. In this post, I hope to simplify that knowledge into an easy-to-read explanation of the Enneagram and...