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With the stress that COVID-19 has brought upon all of us, nerves are naturally frayed. Whether you are dealing with the pandemic or other challenges, there have possibly been situations where you weren’t your best self. You might have relationships with friends, partners, relatives or colleagues...

I keep finding myself in situations where things somehow don't work out and the other person gets hurt which makes me feel awful (maybe I'm just easy to guilt-trip..). Now I find myself shying away from people I really like out of fear of having them grow attached to me and then somehow get hurt...

How have you overcome feelings of resentment? Or how would you advise a fellow INTJ "to get over it"? I seem to be hanging on to this feeling and it's festering into raw anger. I want to snap out of it but since it's not directed at any particular individual it makes it harder to move on. I am...

Hi guys! First of all, I have to admit that I'm from Czech Republic, so I am sorry for my English. :D I wanted to ask you all, how can you get over someone? I had this 2 years long crush on my best friend. We became friends because he wanted to date me first and our friendship was kinda...

My two older sisters are ISTJ. They grew up as best friends, while I always felt like "little sister" who needed to be told what to do. As we've gotten older, we've tried to mend this gap that seems to be between us, but it's just not happening. My feelings have been hurt so many times, I...

EDIT: I've just realized this is posted in the wrong place; I'm now waiting to see if it might be taken down, since I intended to post only in the INFP forum! Oops! There's an old man at my church who has been following me around, calling me and leaving lengthy messages, and pressuring me...

Hi there, Im Elizabeth and i joined personality cafe because i need urgent help . So Lets get to the point . I have an ISTP best friend which i met 5 years ago in highschool .We decided to do youtube music covers for one time until she claimed to have lost interest . We got...

Soooooooooooooo.....I'm growing bored with our little corner of this site, not much to learn about our type anymore it seems.....except for the occasional "OMGURNOTENTP" / #mistype thing going on as of late. For what I percieve to be a long standing tradition of our type I'm Looking For a...

Together for 4 years. Broke up 15 days ago. *ripping sound* *ooouuucchh* Still hurting from the break up. I (ENFP) met him when I was 20 and he (ESTJ) was 21. Please also know that I am a Capricorn with a heavy LEO rising and he is a Cancerian with a Capricorn rising. I was barely interested...

I've stayed too long with someone that really no one in my life likes. The thing is that I think I see the larger picture of him and have seen his sensitive and hurt sides, and think I'm pretty perceptive, so I think I understand some of what is going on and what is behind his actions, though...

I am not too sure if he is an ESFJ due to limited interactions and biased views towards him, but I would say I am about 60% certain. I'm not too sure how to start on describing our relationship so I'll just express my experiences with him when we met until now. I will be splitting this long...

Instead of making this a thread, I decided to put it in my blog because I personally don't think most people would care to read this...because technically people don't want to read something that's 3 pages long....sigh. anywhoo... I've been having this dilemma for a while now, and sorry if I...

A good friend of mine has made me more comfortable in being open about what is bothering me and tends to also validate the feelings, which is not something I've experienced a lot of. Hard for others as well? I find it hard to be vulnerable. I will act out or if I am more open it is scary, and...