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  1. [ENFP] "Real" ENFP Flirting - What does it look like???

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    As naturally flirty and bubbly people, what does "real" flirting look like in an ENFP? * Do you exude confidence around your crush, words slide off your tongue like a 90s R&B singer, feel like you're the best thing since James Bond or * Are you a complete blubbering mess and wish the ground...
  2. [INFP] Socially Inept INFPs?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Any other INFPs out there socially deficient, especially when it comes to talking with women? Sometimes I'm good with talking to strangers, but I feel like these issues hinder me from finding a girlfriend / meaningful relationship: - "beta" male, don't believe in dominance nor manipulation -...
  3. NFs: What Do You Think Of Romance Movies?

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    Or the traditional “rom com” stereotype of a movie? NFs are known to be romantic people by nature and to the extent that they even apply romantic idealisations to their romantic lives (yes, I had to do a play on words, even to that bad of a quality, couldn’t think of anything better, shut up)...
  4. [ENFP] Enfp trouble/romance help

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I need enfp advice. I have a problem. A big one. One that left me with an ache in my heart. I feel absolutely stupid after this happened. To summarize quickly from start to finish basically I'm caught in a romance with a good enfp friend of mine. We've been friends for almost 3 years, not such...

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    Nvm !! idk how to delete threads
  6. What happens to a type when they are brought up in an opposing environment?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    Basically what happens when a child of a certain type is brought up by people who dislike their type and discourage them from being the way they are? For example, what would happen to an NT brought up by NFs who continuously criticise them for not being emotional enough or for being cold...
  7. Experiment No. 2: Do You Have An Idealised Way Of Seeing Yourself?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    I know what you're thinking- what!? This experiment is likely only to apply to NFs or ESFXs and even then, probably only really fits type 4s...possibly 2s! Okay so maybe some of you aren't thinking that. But to be honest, this experiment, I'm hoping to dig a little deeper. Everyone has an...
  8. Are you too trusting?

    NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    (Other types, feel free to chime in and offer your experience) Due to personal experiences, I find it hard to trust and open up enough on a friendship level or other intimate relationships. BUT I seem to have a tendency to be too trusting of people in general, guided by the subconscious belief...
  9. [INFP] Are You Prideful And Prejudiced Against The SJs?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I am not prideful and prejudiced when it comes to the SJs, the Guardians, the Protectors, or what ever you want to call them. Really I'm not. They have so many valuable qualities. They have logistical extraordinaire, are safety experts, gurus of social acceptability, and many other things. Its...
  10. Relationship dynamic for ISFP/INTP using more than MBTI

    Myers Briggs Forum
    I've read that this relationship is no good, but that confuses me because I think the one I'm considering works relatively fine, at least the friendship has been.. I've worked to understand this INTP and even got him to take a few other personality tests and wanted to know what other people (who...
  11. NF College Dating Experiences

    Myers Briggs Forum
    For all you NF types out there... What was/is dating in college like for you? Also what types of people did you crush on and why? Is it easy or hard for you to find someone? Or do you not care so much? I'm crushing so hard on someone right now, it ain't even funny. I feel like I'm gonna...
  12. [INFP] How To Be A Better INFP

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    1. Be Realistic: This is not to say that you should lose your sense of wonder and dreaminess - because let's be honest, that's what really makes us magical. That being said, don't have high expectations for people or things. I know that your idealism consumes you, but try to be optimistic rather...
  13. [INFJ] Idealists, why?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    INTP here. No, really. Why are you Idealists (NF type) so wonderful? Especially the XNFJ. What makes you such an awesomeness? And how can you be so smart it's sexy, even when you're Fe-users? And why are you so rare?
  14. [INTP] INTP vs Guardians vs Idealists

    INTP Forum - The Thinkers
    I'm an INTP living with: - an ESTJ father who always asks you to do something for him RIGHT HERE and NOW, and complains as soon as you start helping him. - an (quiet) ESFJ mother whose purpose is solely to make all the drama in the family. - an (textbook example of) ISTJ younger brother who put...
  15. Finally! A place where INFJ/p 4w5's aren't Lie-Detector'd

    I've been testing and typing my personality, and having others test it, on and off since I was 13. In the years of Tumblr Special Snowflakes—which tragically coincided with the years I went from hating to loving myself—I stunted my "permission" to myself to ever post on these websites, because...
  16. Tri-type (147) Brain dumps

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    This thread is the ultimate reference for anything visionary(147,417,714) related! Here are my two cent as a 714sp/sx enjoy!:perc3: Part one Pick up artist------ The Most Hated Man in the World! 741sx/so Jliax 174so Music------- Schaffer the Darklord 714 Vienna Teng 147...
  17. Do I not exist? - Cookies for help!

    What's my personality type?
    Okay, I've been driving myself nuts, so first post apologies and all that. I’ve always toyed with my mbti type, never with one “fitting” best, but recently my friends and I have been discussing the topic of our (very very different, it seems) types. They’re pretty sure of theirs. They’re pretty...
  18. [INFP] INFP - xSFJ OR INFP- xNFx relationships? What do you prefer?

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi, I'm sure there will be many people who want to say that type doesn't matter in a relationship but now we're discussing theory so let's leave that behind. :tongue: :happy: Besides, I think that 2 well developed people can have a fulfilling relationship and that it also depends on maturity but...
  19. Yet another ever-so interesting INFJ teen girl (featuring john green esque footnotes)

    I believe this is how I introduce myself, so, it is with great pleasure that I introduce you all to yet another ever-so-interesting INFJ [or perhaps P? I'm apparently very borderline. My cognitive functions seem to match up with those of an INFJ, and I demonstrate the typical future-oriented...
  20. [INFP] The INFP Springsteen Appreciation Thread

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    If you read this thread -- -- it might seem as if a few INFPs, appreciate Bruce Springsteen. I know I do and have seen him in concert many times. I got turned onto him in...