Has anyone idealized you? Or have you done that to someone in your life? This would mean to hold a person in high "regard, or represent as perfect, or better than in reality". A romanticizing of a person or relationship, to seem better than it really is. Not idolized because that's a different...

I just recently started learning about the Enneagram, and discovered I'm a 4. I've been reading up on it, and came across statements about 4's often creating a fantasy version of themselves, and I nearly started crying... "...cultivating a Fantasy Self—an idealized self-image which is built up...

I desire to become my highest self. I am seeking wisdom on how to go about doing this. What does that look like? How do I approach realizing this idealized self? Should I develop myself to become more balanced? More disciplined? Better at implementation? Should I actually follow through with...

Hi guys! This is actually my first thread, and I hope this isn't already made. Anyways, is it normal for INFP's to play RPG games, otome games or other games where you can be someone else? I'm guessing it's because we're idealists and we can be our idealized selves while playing those games...

*~*~*~*~Your Dream Life*~*~*~*~ Have fun :D __________________________________________________ Where would you live? What would you live in? What’s your transportation? What would you create/do that would change the world? What would your dream business/job be? Who’s your dream partner...

It's pretty well accepted that INFPs crush hard! It makes sense -- we idealize, we feel deeply, we envision the future. Today i'm thinking about how this tendency toward emotional entanglement isn't always healthy. To an extent it's OK, but when we grant one person such control over our sense...

Has it ever happened to you? I only feel bad about smashing the other person's ideal when they're NFs. If they're clearly not, I don't really. There are usually other factors that make it uncomfortable, like when they call me at home and I didn't give out my number, but it's heartless of me...