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  1. [INFJ] Turbulent INFJ or (quiet) Borderline Personality Disorder?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    Hey all, so here's the story (There's a condensed summary at the end || read the bold as well): I'm an INFJ who's come to have a lot of emotional stress centered around my relationships, particularly friendships and romantic interests. I've had a lot of high points and low points related to...
  2. [Enneagram Type 9] Imitation, Idealizing Others, Mirroring

    Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    I want to discuss a few topics and how it relates to 9 and possibly other types. I myself am a re-re-re-re-diagnosed 6 :laughing: but alas I can't help but see a bunch of 9 in my life. So I'll just spill out a bit of what's in my head: Idealizing Others The old question of 'what do you want...
  3. [INFP] Crushing, boundaries, emotional disengagement, and self-discipline

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    It's pretty well accepted that INFPs crush hard! It makes sense -- we idealize, we feel deeply, we envision the future. Today i'm thinking about how this tendency toward emotional entanglement isn't always healthy. To an extent it's OK, but when we grant one person such control over our sense...
  4. [INFP] Are INFP'S inclined to fantasize about love, and their partners in a not realistic wa

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Are INFP's inclined to fantasize about love........romance.......and idealize their partners in a not realistic way........? or if they are single do INFP's tend to desire this perfect person, as if it were a princess/prince from a fairy tale and when they finally reality hits them they end up...