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  1. [Enneagram Type 9] Getting a 9 to open up?

    Type 9 Forum - The Peacemaker
    There are about four 9s in my life right now and I'm trying to get to know them better but they don't really talk about themselves. There are times where a conversation would naturally lead to them and they would speak a little but I still haven't found out much about them other than what the...
  2. [INFJ] how to make an infj feel special or important

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    How does one make an INFJ feel special or important? Mostly talking about the more romantic side... I am asking this in light of hearing that INFJs have a tendency to see themselves as "not important in the big picture/global view".
  3. Enneagram and the Beatitudes/ A research

    Enneagram Personality Theory Forum
    I've heard something about the nine Beatitudes(Mt 5,3-11) and the Enneagram. Do you think you can compare these two objects? Can you personally relate to one beatitude compared to your E-Type? Here is the list: *“Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven. Typ 5...
  4. [INFJ] How do you feel when you lose something you value?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    First Thread so I hope I'm doing this right. I mean I guess you just talk about stuff right? And ask questions? Anyway, so I don't know about you all. But, when I lose things, especially things that I value. I almost have a panic attack. First off I lost my mp3. And I just keep thinking about...
  5. Tips for fighting depression.

    Advice Center
    As a sufferer of clinical depression (or major depressive disorder) I have quite a list of tips that have personally helped me and many others, so hopefully these reach more people, and improve (and maybe even save) precious lives. 1) Avoid alcohol. I find having a drink can trigger the...
  6. Need help with emotionally needy friend!

    Sex and Relationships
    I'm not sure if this is the right thread for this topic. If it is not, I am sincerely sorry; please direct me to where I should place this. I don't usually like to discuss my problems because I don't like burdening other people, but I don't know what else I can do. I am not a sociable...
  7. [INFP] Decision making time - love/life - help me out

    INFP Forum - The Idealists
    This is a long story in a short version (believe it or not!). I have always been emotional, observing, and planning. I love planning my life, say 5 years ahead. When I was 15 I wanted first finish high school, then go traveling a year, then study for 3, then work for 1 and then have kids...
  8. [ENFP] Something everyone should consider. What symptoms do you have?

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I have noticed that there is a bit overlap between my symptoms of Aspergers, Bipolar, ADD, being an ENFP and a 4w ennegram type. These things also have links with highly sensitive persons and introverts. As a public service, I am showing you a few lists of these things, so that if you are...
  9. [INFJ] Important Things About People....

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I've been wondering: what's the most important trait for you in a (prospective) romantic partner? Does it differ from what you prefer in a friend? I'm asking because I met a very wonderful man a few months ago, who I'm almost certain is an infj. We'd been talking constantly and playing games...