infatuation

Some thoughts getting closer to Valentines day. If Fi is dominant in INFP, doesn't the Fi want the infatuation, codependent, obsessive, oxytocin supercharged love over-the-top romantic experience? I thought that more emotional people would like more emotional content in their lives...

I thought that I would never again experience the maddening, sickening infatuation for somebody that I did as a growing teenager. But then I randomly got it as an adult like a dynamite explosion in my stomach! After I was coming out of a long relationship, I became infatuated with someone after...

Good midnight, All. I'm experiencing some mental anguish that needs to be vented, so I'm turning to you guys for advice. Bare with me, this is going to be long. I haven't visited this website in nearly three years and I'm almost distraught to say I've lost myself. I suppose that's to be...

I'm an INFJ that's in the early stages of a relationship with an ENFP who I've been good friends with for quite a while. He and I were acquaintances for a long time and then we became extremely close friends over time. I'm hesitant to go into this full force though, because I really value our...

Hello, ISTJ's! I, the friendly INFP, have a question for your logical little brains! My crush is one of you. Sadly he and I do not interact on more than acquaintance level, solely because we haven't ever talked to each other before (well yes we've talked to each other, but never one on one, and...

I'm intensely infatuated with King Krule (Archy Marshall) right now and I'm pretty sure knowing his personality type would make my life... a wee bit better. :D So yes....

My friend of years finally pressed his luck in commenting on my statuses and liking them. Every time I post something he will always like and/or comment on it literally a split second later. It's so annoying! Even after I told him to back off a bit he seems to continue pressing conversation...

"Unrequited love" versus "Infatuation" . . . Is there a difference? Are they the same? What are your thoughts? Please feel free to add your type, quotes, stories, advices, etc., whatever you'd like. From what I've noticed, some people view both as similar in that either disposition is an...

Two days ago, I went to eat dim sum/yum cha with my family at a Chinese restaurant. We live in Asia (Singapore to be specific) so it's a lot more specialised to Chinese tradition than it probably would be in other countries like America. So I was very surprised to see a Eurasian waiter there...

Hi ENFPs, I was wondering if you could give me your thoughts about a situation I'm having with a very good ENFP friend of mine. We are both single women, I am 30 and she is 33. This friend has supported me through several periods of clinical depression, has taught me that money and external...

Just thought I'd get some opinions on what everyone thinks of love. You can say whatever you think it is, how you feel about it, or some deep metaphorical interpretation of it...WHATEVER you wanna post. Ill start: I'm not sure true romantic love exists, or at least not in this day and age...

Enneagram 4w3 soc/sx here. I'm seventeen years old... And I've only dated one guy. It wasn't even for that long; it was only like two weeks. And though I'm sure I'll never know, I'm pretty sure he ended things because as usual, I got extremely needy and insecure and totally over analyzed...

I think I have reason to doubt my sanity. Haha, okay, it's not that bad yet, but I have a horrible habit of getting infatuated with guys who are sort of strangers. I want to see if you ENFPs experienced this before. I first became infatuated with my friend's brother - but I had hardly spoken to...

there's an ISFP i am crushing on but i cannot seem to get a good read on him. sometimes i think he likes me and he shares his innermost thoughts with me and tells me that he doesn't do that with just anyone. that leads me to believe that i am at least important enough in his life that he is...

there's an ISFP i am crushing on but i cannot seem to get a good read on him. sometimes i think he likes me and he shares his innermost thoughts with me and tells me that he doesn't do that with just anyone. that leads me to believe that i am at least important enough in his life that he is...

Okay so to be direct, I am not used to irrational emotion. I am used to choosing who I want to be attracted to, evaluating their suitability, and then infatuation follows. Lately, I have been frustrated because I have become head over heels infatuated with a man. I don't feel like it is...

Prologue: Ha, so I'm still n00b here but I scrolled all the way to the 2nd page of threads and didn't see this so I thought I'd create my very first thread. :laughing: The question is - have you ever been in a great relationship with someone you loved romantically? THEN BROKEN UP WITH THEM? I...

It's pretty well accepted that INFPs crush hard! It makes sense -- we idealize, we feel deeply, we envision the future. Today i'm thinking about how this tendency toward emotional entanglement isn't always healthy. To an extent it's OK, but when we grant one person such control over our sense...

Anyone here ever destroyed his/her infatuation (or limerence) by telling the concerned person about it? I did this a few times in the past to restore order within myself or to remain independent.