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  1. [ISFJ] Understanding this ISFJ guy (affair, cheating, aversion to change)

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    Hey there, I would like to know your INFJs take on this. You may judge me for the infidelity part ... I don't get this ISFJ (29m). He's been with his first girlfriend (long-distance) for over 10 years. We started having casual sex about 9 monthes ago. He made the first step. We started texting...
  2. Question to ENTJs - can you forgive cheating and what requirements needs to be met?

    Myers Briggs Forum
    I need an input from all the ENTJs that are here: Can you ever, in any circumstanced forgive your partner cheating on you? Would you be willing to continue the relationship if your partner would ensure you it will never happen again? What would convince you they are telling the truth and what...
  3. White Lies

    Sex and Relationships
    I've noticed that whenever some people find out someone is married, they have a hard time getting over that crush. This always shocks me because as soon as I find out someone is married no matter how upset I was about it, I was always able to say screw him for lying to me for so long. It's a...
  4. [ISFJ] Please help me understand why an ISFJ is cheating

    ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers
    I have a question for ISFJ men, please help me! About a month ago, I met an ISFJ guy for a blind date and the attraction was incredible. I asked him if he was genuinely single (had previously asked by email) and he said he was. We met up again and started a sexual relationship. The next day...
  5. [ISTP] please help me understand my istp husband

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    Hey guys, i'm new to both the cafe and this forum. I'm an enfp female who is really hoping some Istp's on here can help me to understand my istp husband. Before I cut to the chase I want to clarify I do not stereotype personalities. That being said, I have been with my Istp husband for 8 years...
  6. [INFJ] ISFJ's...not all their cracked up to be

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I posted something similar on the isfj forum about them and infidelity. I am on my second isfj, rather regretfully. I have no intention to make this current one a permanent fixture, nor he does of me. He is merely a blip on the road through life, and, I am just a blip on his road through life...
  7. ENFPs and Infidelity

  8. [ENFP] ENFPs and Infidelity

    ENFP Forum - The Inspirers
    I have question for my fellow ENFPs: Where do you stand on the subject of... *lowers voice* infidelity? I've seen it stated around here that us ENFPs are closer to serial monogamers than outright cheaters. That as Ne-dom Fi-aux, we tend to rely strongly on our value systems, which -at least...
  9. [ESTP] How likely do you see an ESTP male cheating on a girlfriend/wife?

    ESTP Forum - The Doers
    Im curious. I know ESTP's are charming, smart, handy, go-getters, who fight for what they want. I also know they can get bored of routine and dont much like commitment. Do you feel an ESTP male is likely to cheat on their partner? If yes, or no, what are your thoughts on this?
  10. [ISTP] ISTP Boyfriend had locked dirty text messages from a previous girlfriend!?

    ISTP Forum - The Mechanics
    I have a feeling this is gonna be a novel... I've posted previously on some misunderstandings my boyfriend and I have, that were doing better as of late, but something new and unexpected has cropped up and is dampening my trust in him. Before I had complete faith and trust in him and this...
  11. Ode to Instant Lunch/My ongoing affair against health...

    I love your styrofoam, and my fingernail tendencies. What I etch may stay between us. The way you expand when I leave you be. Plumped carrots and peas filled with coffee-pot steam. Your affinity for sodium, and low protein. Weeks I lean on thee. And you keep me warm, Keep me on my feet. Nourish...
  12. [ISFP] ISFP dating and infidelity

    ISFP Forum - The Artists
    So, I have this ISFP friend who is male and rather good looking. He has cheated on every person he has ever dated. I feel however this is because he dates people he doesn't really want to date. It is clear that he likes to be liked. Therefore when someone likes him and says "date me or I...