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  1. [INFJ] INFJs: Overrated?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I mentioned this in some random thread some time ago, but didn't receive any responses. Since I was hoping for an answer (or at least a decent argument), I'm taking the next best step... Annoying you nice folks with another speculative thread! For a while, I've seen that the INFJ seems to get...
  2. [INFJ] INFJs: I think I might be one of you. What do you think? (long message, sorry)

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I've been thinking over what vocalist had wrote. This sounds true for me. Also, I read an article online about INFJ writers. Here it is, incase anyone is interested: The INFJ Writing Personality: Eloquent Vision Andrea J. Wenger: Write*with*Personality I have written stories before- both for...
  3. [INFJ] Do you believe people will ever change?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I have a working relationship with this guy. He's lied, cheated, refused to admit he's wrong so many times. I've given him a few chances but he's remained the same. Today, he tried to cheat me again. Unfortunately, he's not as mentally quick as I am and unwittingly binded himself to an agreement...
  4. INFJs: Feeling misunderstood..

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    After a frustrating conversation with my sister yesterday I began reflecting how being misunderstood affects me more than it should. When I feel misunderstood, I get upset and my first reaction is to withdraw from the mainstream. I shouldn't let it bother me. If we are doing all that is...
  5. INFJs: Our overcautious defense mechanism...

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I think being sensitive and taking relationships seriously makes me susceptible to romantic anxiety. I’m guarded and do not trust easily. I have developed an overcautious defense mechanism and am not as open as I would like to be. I take a long time to open up before I let myself be...
  6. INFJs: Not knowing what I feel...

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    I've developed a shame-based personality over time and I think a major part of it is due to my slow processing -- almost inaccessible Introverted Feeling function. It's not only about having a hard time knowing what I feel, but feeling deeply divided as well. My therapist would start off...
  7. INFJs: Do you attract "takers"?

    INFJ Forum - The Protectors
    In relationships, there are three types of people: (1) Those who love to take but cannot give of themselves (2) Those who love to give but have difficulty taking from others (3) Those who are happy to both give and take I find that INFJs tend to fall into group 2. And that they tend to...
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