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  1. ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    I (m32, INFP) met a wonderful ENFJ (f28) via an online dating app (not knowing she was an ENFJ). We met up two times and had a profound connection and similar views, goals, ambitions and interests on so many topics. However, unfortunately, I felt intimidated by her (mostly assumed) extroversion...
  2. Myers Briggs Forum
    Thank you! :)
  3. ENFJ Forum - The Givers
    I'll try to keep this short I did this small group project with an ENFJ in my class, and we kinda clicked. Well not kinda. It was like....i was living peacefully and quietly in my introverted bubble, writing poems, painting, baking cookies and daydreaming and just.... being alone in peace. I...
  4. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hey everyone! I've read many forums on this website before, but this is my first time posting! This is bound to be pretty long and it's totally not necessary to read the entire post to answer the question (so please answer whether you read all of it, skim it, or just the question!!), but my...
  5. Sex and Relationships
    Matchmaking (platonic or something more) thread: Searching for INFPs to post a description about their interests and their latest musings and ideas/visions. I am interested in meeting or conversing with those the MBTI deems as the natural INFP partner "ENFJ or ESFJ." I am sure there are others...
  6. Myers Briggs Forum
    i always read that infjs are rare so are infps . i also read that the infps are mostly males . iam wondering if those facts are true since i have seen a lot of them on internet - i dont know anyone's personality in real world - and all the infps i have seen were females lol what do u guys think...
  7. INTJ Forum - The Scientists
    I have a friend that took the test on keys2cognition.com and she got INTJ as a result. She has the same cognitive pattern of an INTJ (Ni Te Fi Se) but not in the same order. She has Fi Ni Te Se. She also gives off the INTJ vibe (she can't be an INFJ because she has very low Fe) I also can't see...
  8. Myers Briggs Forum
    Hi, so I started dating this INFP guy at the beginning of the year, and it's the first time I've actually decided to give someone all my love. He is 36 and I'm 25. When I met him he was stuck in a relationship that was leading nowhere, so he broke up and started dating me. The relationship he...
  9. Intro
    Hi. I am Ayesha. Proud INFP residing in New York. One challenge though that I do have is making friends so I am looking for anybody who wants to connect, network and talk
  10. Myers Briggs Forum
    okay so I did the test recently and got INFP. i'm a little curious as to how other perceive my type so questions would be appreciated. or if there's anything thing you'd like to ask an INFP i'd be happy to answer!
  11. Intro
    Hi. This is my first post/thread. I'll answer the small-talk-ish survey questions later, but what I really wanted to do was immediately dive into the typical "HELP WHAT IS MY MEYERS-BRIGGS TYPE THE INTERWEBZ HAS TYPED ME AS SEVEN DIFFERENT THINGS" post. ;) Not to be overwhelming, but... here...
  12. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    First off, I'm so sorry for registering just to post this right away. I've been a lurker but honestly this is eating away at me and I'd love an INFP perspective on it... So, background. I have been convinced for the longest time that I am only attracted to men. I might have had the vaguest bi...
  13. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hey, INFPs! (This is my first thread in a personality's forum that isn't mine; it's new :P) I'm writing this 'cause I need a little advise on something... You see, I have two friends: an ENFJ guy and an INFP girl. They're both awesome people and I knew them at different times in different...
  14. What's my personality type?
    Is changing types is possible??? Please help me!! I would love to hear what you think Ok, so I'm a bit confused about something. When I was a lot younger and just starting school I am fairly certain was an IFP child. I feel as though that is probably what I have been up until the past year...
  15. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello! ENFJ here (: I know that INFP's are considered to be a type that, "sees the good in others." A couple INFP's I know seem to fit this bill, and only criticize if it seems absolutely necessary to them Yet at the same time, other INFP's I know are very good at picking out other's faults...
  16. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    . We met three weeks ago, when he arrived at the house where I was briefly a tenant for the summer break (I moved out today, back to my usual lodgings for the academic term.). So this shouldn't have happened. I'm not the kind of person to prey on other people's happiness; I'm attracted to...
  17. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Heya Guys, I'm new here so a big hello to everyone out there! Well my story is a bit complicated and I didn't know to how word the title here. Essentially I have a best friend who is an ENFJ male and I am an INFP female. Now I know we're supposed to be ideal matches. The thing here is that...
  18. Advice Center
    I am having a tough time deciding where to live. I guess I've always followed. I want to stay in Canada. I like Montreal but I don't speak french so it really limits job opportunities. I'm thinking about Ontario but I've heard Toronto is not very friendly. What's an XNFP to do? I also think...
  19. Blog
    Dear INFP, i cannot understand how you can simultaneously draw someone near and push them away. I cannot understand why you choose to hide your emotions and act indifferent when i know you really care. I cannot understand why you practice naivety to the attachment to people and emotions in your...
  20. Blog
    I am a INFP, and I was interested in an ENFJ. We were friends, but recently I have dissapointed him. Mainly because I am too outspoken and sensitive. I lashed out at someone I shouldnt have lashed out on. Well, they deserved it, but still, I shouldnt have said anything. I love him, but he is so...
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