infp & intj

Hello all, I’m a long time lurker—finally taking the plunge and joining the conversation. I’ve had a former relationship on my mind a lot lately, and I could really use some perspective. Once upon a time, I met an older, INFP man online. We fell hard and fast, and before I knew it I was...

So I can realte to the INFP and the INFJ description as well. In every cognitive function test I score :Introverted Intuition. Not Introverted Feeling. For the J-P: I'm really like to plan my music projects very carefully and the things that are important to me. But I never plan anything besides...

I recently got out of a relationship with an INTJ. It was a toxic one I think, if I look back at it. I feel like I don't know who I am anymore if have to be concise and blunt. Nothing moves my soul, nothing excites me and everything bores me after a few seconds. I think of the future and I feel...

Hi! I'm an INTJ with a very-well developed Fi and trained Fe due to my family condition and careers. I had been in a relationship with my INFP partner for about three years (a quarter short). We were so in love, at least in my understanding. We held hands everywhere we went, reading newspapers...

I realize this might be a common question and everyone is an individual, but are there any INFPs dating INTJs who are satisfied with their relationship? If so, can you describe your experience? The joys and sorrows and where you think this match would need to compromise to sustain a happy...

I am an INFP but I went through a period of time when I doubted my type because I had so much in common with several INTJs in terms of thought process. I know it's best not to focus on the individual letters of your type, but I also thought I was thinking more than I was feeling and judging more...

So I've been reading posts around Personality Cafe, including some posts about relationships, and I notice that a LOT of INTJs likes xNFPs. (Cute.) What I'm asking is: What is your experience with xNFPs? What do you think of them? (It doesn't matter if it's a friendly, family, or romantic...

I know INTJ's don't love relationship Q's, but I wanted to talk through this situation and get some feedback about what some of you other INTJ's think, I appreciate hearing your thoughts! :happy: I'm an INFP, I met an INTJ online (non-dating website), we got chatting privately and have nearly...

I don't know what to do about a INTJ in my life that I've been romantically involved with, and I perhaps in poor form stayed around despite him being clear and honest that he doesn't have time for a romantic relationship. He has all the qualities I like in a man and we seem to be very compatible...

I (INTJ female) met an amazing INFP man one month ago at a friend’s wedding. From the moment we were introduced he kept “appearing” next to me (although he was not touchy feely). At the end of the night we sat in the kitchen (we each rented a room in the same guesthouse the night of the...

So... I started working with an INTJ last month, and I wasn't sure if we'd hit it off as friends. He's four years younger than I am so I didn't think anything about him until New Year's eve. We had to work an event that night, and despite him being a team leader, he stuck with me the whole...

If you guys can help me out with this, I'd greatly appreciate it. I want to say when I first took the test ever, I got INFJ as an answer and consistently did, then I took a break from personality types and the second time around I took a few more tests and got INFP for the most part. Then ever...

I have a childhood friend who recently tested as an INTJ - and suddenly, so much seemed to make sense about her. All throughout elementary school, she was very opinionated, social, narcissistic and at times even bossy. We used to get into passive-aggressive fights and she would leave me out of...

So, I just made this profile today because I had been reading on topics between INFP and INTJ. I read so many threads, and it's just crazy how similar they are to my own situation with an INTJ guy. I kept wondering what it is that draws INFPs to INTJ people. I just find myself attracted to their...

Hi everyone! I am quite new to MBTI, so I would love to get some clarification from more experienced folks! I have an INFP parent who i find puzzling and very hard to deal with. INFPs are wonderful and loving people, but for me, an INTJ relationships with this type is challenging and i can't...

My INFP and I are going through some rough times, after opening our relationship while my work schedule cut us off from each other. I also am burdening him because I'm myself in a low in my life right now. My Ni feeling that he was growing more distant, and my Te making me need to do something...

Hello, I am a new member to this site but I wish for some healthy insight on my matter I will keep this short and I hope I get good advices. All mbti types are welcome to answer. :) So the story starts when my Intj ex and me were 15. Due to all the sudden attraction, we dated online. It was the...

Hello everyone, (Yes I know I already posted this but I'm new and didn't ask in the right forum! please forgive me) This is a question regarding a male INFP that won't let me move forward with my life. I'm wondering how I should live my life if he won't stop with this emotional torment...

How can an INTJ lady tell if an INFP male friend likes her? Does it take forever for them to decide they like you as more than a friend? What are the signs? How will I know when he has finally "decided" to pursue me? I sense an interest from my INFP male friend. I'm sort of his confidante. He...

I was having a conversation the other day with my ENFP friend, who happens to be a chemistry major, when, on a whim, I admitted one of my darkest secrets: Theorectical physics totally turns me on. To my surpise my ENFP friend replied, "Oh my God. Me too!" So then I got to thinking: Could...