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  1. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hello, all my life i've been abused and am now a messed up adult. I recently left my husband who was verbally/emotionally abusing me and am trying to live on my own now. I am currently trying to navigate my way through trying to have a healthy relationship with the most amazing, kind and gentle...
  2. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I usually test an INFP, but wonder if sometimes I am an ENFP. Anyhow. I feel like an emotionally wreck when trying to date. It's been over since 5 years since I've had a man around for any type of more normal relationship. I have a lover, but he isn't there when I'm lonely or hurt or sick and...
  3. ENTJ Forum - The Executives
    Hi everyone! This is my first post here (yay!), so I apologize if it belongs somewhere else... So I am an INFP who has been dating her ENTJ boyfriend for about 5 months now. I tend to be very idealistic (sometimes too much so) and he tends to be very realistic (which I like, because I do...
  4. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hey, Two of my best friends are ISTP and ESFP. I've been hanging out with them almost every day for almost four years now. I becomed more realistic. This comradeship suits me. But today on internet, I have read that this friendship is uncommon. I wonder why? What influence this friendship has...
  5. NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers
    I'm afraid my big heart is detrimental when dealing with relationships. Does anyone have any ideas or tips for dealing with exes? I think at times I would be better off cutting people out of my life (or keeping them out of my life) but sometimes have an emotional pull to at least be open to...
  6. INFP Forum - The Idealists
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  7. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi Everyone! :proud: This is my first thread (besides the intro thread), and I joined PerC mostly to ask this question. I’m an INFP who’s recently graduated college, and I’m slightly afraid that, now that I’m no longer constantly surrounded by hundreds of my peers, it will be harder for me to...
  8. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Please help INFPs! :( I am in love with an INFP, who is now one of my best friends, but I am really confused by his actions/behavior. -We met online after we had both gotten out of 7 year relationships (at the time, Me: 5 months out, Him: 1 month out). We talked almost everyday on the phone. I...
  9. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I know what it is like to really have a connection and strong feelings for someone, but the relationships have never lasted, so I don't know if what I've felt or what I expect to have or feel in a relationship is even possible. So for the INFPs who found a good relationship, how was it when you...
  10. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi! Curious if any INFPs have thoughts/experiences with ISTJ. I've been dating one, a first, I'm just not sure I'm into that much or will be very happy. He is smart, but simple... he has good hobbies like sports and hanging with friends, but I'm missing feeling inspired or having a deeper...
  11. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I don't know what to do about a INTJ in my life that I've been romantically involved with, and I perhaps in poor form stayed around despite him being clear and honest that he doesn't have time for a romantic relationship. He has all the qualities I like in a man and we seem to be very compatible...
  12. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    My girlfriend [INFP] and I [INFP] just became "Facebook Official", and I noticed that my own interest in the relationship began to fade just a bit. I felt like I'd just signed up for a two-player stage performance, and our objective together became garnering positive reviews from an audience. Is...
  13. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    To all INFPs looking for that special someone. I wanna hear 'em. Shoot!
  14. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    From a young age I seem to have often found one special person to gravitate toward. Now I find I do better, feel better if I have someone special. Is this common? Or is something not healthy about this? I just feel I am more at peace having affection and love and a place to feel safe.
  15. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Having trouble communicating feelings to another INFP, especially around loss. I'm trying to manage my own feelings and not put them on him, but I got really sad when I had to go some time without seeing him. And then felt like I wanted to be more distant because it hurt. He still doesn't know...
  16. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Any other INFPs been in a long-distance relationship? What was the hardest things for you? What did you need? How did you navigate your situation particularly if not with another feeler? Did you feel over emotional at times or more prone to worry or trust? Any tips, suggestions or experiences...
  17. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    I recently met someone at a business networking event. He ended up even holding my drink one part of the even, bought me dinner after. Called two days later to plan to see me again, and has been clear about putting in consideration and time to plan activity for me -- and seems clear he is...
  18. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Hi Everyone, A four-year relationship with an ISTJ came tumbling down recently. I was so frustrated with her all of the time for invalidating my feelings by lying about and obfuscating what she felt and her intentions. I also found out about a lie she had been maintaining for 18 months. Since...
  19. INFP Forum - The Idealists
    Does anyone else have trouble committing to relationships? I've been debating about getting back with the last guy I dated...he was really loving/caring and was there for me, but didn't always have "fun", but I'm not the greatest expert in relationships. He was an INTJ based on one quiz I gave...
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